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Posts: 4 · Posted: Wed Nov 28, 2007 9:57 pm

Would anyone be willing to provide me with some love-life insight? I've had a very rough go of it lately and could use some direction! My name is Chris, female, dob 06/20/81

Thank you so very much in advance!!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 1:58 am

Hi Chris,

Am I understanding you correctly in feeling that you have only relatively recently left a failed relationship (although it was not due to your own failings that this occurred), or that you are perhaps carrying with you considerable negative emotional baggage as a result of your unfortunate experiences with men in your life up until now?

Although 26 years of age hardly qualifies you as a senior citizen, I feel that when it comes to forming and maintaining relationship with men, you are considerably "older" and sadder compared to being any wiser. Whatever has happened it has unfortunately damaged your self confidence, and your self image of yourself as being worthy of or deserving a man's love.

Because you are not fully at peace with, and do not value and respect yourself for being the generous and loving woman whom you already are, then any man who says he loves you is obviously himself a fool, or alternately he is out to get something from you other than true love. You understandably then have serious issues with placing your trust in another man ever again, with the intention to shield your heart from any further pain to what it has already endured. But by unconsciously building up this protective wall around your heart, you have also unintentionally cut yourself off from the genuine compliments and good feelings as well.

But I sense that the situation with regards to finding the love and happiness in your life which you so deserve, is anything but being a lost cause. A major challenge is that because some of these things have happened more than once to you, you are almost expecting them to do so again at any moment. This is making you hold back from allowing men to get to know you better, in case they discover some dark secret about you that probably only exists in your own mind.

I therefore on the basis of this reading feel that your difficulties in finding a suitable partner are mostly not because you are either doing something wrong (or on the other hand are failing to do something you should). and have little to do with your outward appearance (although I do not mean by this that you should let your appearance go, but rather that you should not constantly worry yourself about it to the point that you are overlooking other equally important things).

I sense that it is more your own negative beliefs about yourself being worthy of being loved, perhaps combined with your sometimes unrealistic expectations of having all your many and ever changing needs satisfied by one person only in your life, that are making this whole issue of close relationships significantly more difficult for you than they might have otherwise been. Fortunately, although it will not happen overnight, our core beliefs about ourselves are often much easier to change than the actual situation itself. If you are only willing to show as much compassion for yourself as you so kindly do to others, then I feel that this should be seen as a very positive omen for any future romance.

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 4 · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 3:39 pm

Thank you very much! You are right on target!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 1:28 am

Thank you for letting me know that I was right on the mark with what I felt.

Quote:

“You must love yourself before you love another. By accepting yourself and fully being what you are, your simple presence can make others happy.”

Read this and other self-esteem quotes at:

http://thinkexist.com/quotations/self-esteem/

Be kind to yourself,

eye_of_tiger