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Posts: 2 · Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 4:31 am

Hi, my name is Alex Patrick Schneider and I am 20 years old. I was born a Scorpio on November 15th, 1987. I am ALWAYS disappointed by people in my life. My family relationships are ALWAYS strong, and they are great, but relating to other people and making friends and being outgoing always seems to be a tremendous chore. I know a little about astrology and I am a moon in virgo, which is squared saturn. (exactly at 90 degrees) I know that doesn't help matters at all, but what is it about me that repels people? I have had a constant craving for love ever since I can remember but I have NEVER even come close to it. I feel like I have missed out on so much. I feel like honestly no one likes me. Never had a serious girlfriend at all.

So I know everyone asks this, but when will I meet that person. What is their name? Do I know them now? I have a feeling I am going to be alone and suffering for a long long time. It just seems hopeless anymore. And if you can tell me why God has worked this out for me the way He did, I would be even happier. Am I being punished?
Thanks,
Alex Schneider

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 3:40 am

You have a very sensitive and caring nature, and the fact that you experience difficulty in meeting and making new friends does not necessarily mean that there is something wrong with you. It is more I feel that you often take things in your life and yourself far too seriously. You continue to wear your heart upon your sleeve, and then feel disappointed and let down when you misinterpret another person's actions towards you as always being an intentional attack. While you must not lower your expectations below what you would be comfortable in accepting from a woman on a daily basis, do not at the same time place her on a pedestal and have completely unrealistic expectations about that one special person in your life satisfying your every need. In other words, do not expect either to little or too much from a friend or lover, and you should have a much greater chance of finding some love and happiness in your life.

With due respect, although I do not wish to be though of as being totally insensitive to your suffering of feeling lonely, many of the ideas and beliefs you have included near the end of your request are effectively I feel your biggest enemies at the moment. I for one do not believe that you are other than a young man who is doing the very best he feels capable of to make a life for himself, and the I find the belief that you are somehow being punished for perceived misdeeds in a past life which you cannot even remember both illogical and frankly offensive to my own concept of God as being a loving father. I really do think that you have seriously misunderstood the true purpose of karma. It is not a system of rewards and punishments, but rather it is a system of balancing the consequences of our actions, against the actions themselves. Mainly karma is designed to provide us with as many possible and largely positive learning opportunities, in order for us to more fully develop as both spiritual and human beings.

If you either want to make a new friend or find a suitable partner, first learn to be more of a friend to yourself. I know all too well how difficult it is to risk the fear of being rejected on your first approach, and what damage the effects of low self confidence can potentially do to our lives in general. To love oneself has nothing to do with us being arrogant or filled with false vanity or pride, but it is to value and respect yourself more for being the genuine and caring individual you already are. Too many people these days are madly running around, trying desperately to be someone other than the person whom they really are. This is probably because they believe that by doing so they are more likely to be accepted, and they do not want anyone else to find out something about them that would make others change their attitudes towards them. Do you really have such deep, dark secrets within you that you feel would qualify you to be destined to live the rest of your life completely alone? Be true to yourself and your own values, and learn to better understand what blessings and abundance you have already been given in this lifetime. Forget about any possible past lifetime of your's, and focus entirely on this one. It is quite enough having to deal with one life at a time, without wondering what you did or did not do all those years ago.

If you can somehow become a better friend to yourself, then people's attitudes towards you will gradually in time change in order to agree more with your own positive self assessment. How can you offer a future friend or partner something which you deny yourself? Charity should begin at home, and so I feel should love, compassion and understanding. My feelings on the basis of this reading are that whether you will make a new friend or find that special person in your life within the next six months is mainly up to you. The ball is now firmly in your court? Shed some of your negative, worn out ways of thinking, get out of the house and visit the places where you would most expect to meet the type of person you feel drawn to, first as a friend, and later possibly as your prospective life partner. I am not heavily into making predictions through my readings, as you are currently creating and reshaping your most likely personal future by the decisions you make in the present moment (your only true point of power). A much brighter future, especially with reference to your friendships and love life, is definitely waiting out there for you. Are you up to the challenges involved?

Be kinder to yourself, at least until next time we meet,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 44 · Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 3:55 am

Brinegar wrote:

Hi, my name is Alex Patrick Schneider and I am 20 years old. I was born a Scorpio on November 15th, 1987. I am ALWAYS disappointed by people in my life. My family relationships are ALWAYS strong, and they are great, but relating to other people and making friends and being outgoing always seems to be a tremendous chore. I know a little about astrology and I am a moon in virgo, which is squared saturn. (exactly at 90 degrees) I know that doesn't help matters at all, but what is it about me that repels people? I have had a constant craving for love ever since I can remember but I have NEVER even come close to it. I feel like I have missed out on so much. I feel like honestly no one likes me. Never had a serious girlfriend at all.

So I know everyone asks this, but when will I meet that person. What is their name? Do I know them now? I have a feeling I am going to be alone and suffering for a long long time. It just seems hopeless anymore. And if you can tell me why God has worked this out for me the way He did, I would be even happier. Am I being punished?
Thanks,
Alex Schneider

oh man, you were born a Virgo moon. that's a big problem in love matters.

Posts: 160 · Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 7:55 am

Hi Alex,

I didn't read what eye of tiger wrote ( because I find I work better with a "clean slate") but I'm sure it's excellent, since he is a great reader. I read your post and was moved by what you wrote. So I wanted to add my reading hoping it also helps.
In focusing on your past, I see the image of a large tidal wave washing over your budding relationships. The last potential relationship was a girl with a D name, sounds like Debbie.
When I ask what the problem is, I see a picture of a large magnet with reversed magnetisim- pushing others away. The reason it's pushing girls away is you are holding it in reverse ( my clairvoyant images don't always make science sense lol ) . My intuition tells me the interpretation of this is your strong craving for love is obvious to others and that's what's repelling it.
I get the feeling you need to apply yourself and release the worry and neediness.Trust in the fact that you have many good qualities and will make an excellent partner. Before going to sleep every night, tell yourself this affirmation "I Am Worthy of Someone Special Who Truly Loves Me"
Visualize a giant magnet drawing that someone special to you. Picture how she will look and act. See yourself enjoying dates with her. Do this exercise for a few minutes and tell yourself you will allow this to work out.
You can do the same for attracting good friends.

By the way, I see you meeting a blond girl with wavy hair soon. She's very attractive and wearing a white dress with some yellow when you meet her. I get a strong feeling you might have met her this weekend or will meet her within the next week or two. Name of Jessica or Jenna.

Love and Light

Joe

P.S. Send me a private message if you need help with visualization or anything else.

Posts: 42 · Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 3:18 pm

Hi Alex,
I'm new around here and deffinitely not a pshycic.. but i can relate to some of the things you have said in your post.. well about how you feel as i really don't know anything about astrology!

Your 20 and well still quiet young yet.. when we crave and need love, it never seems to work out.. as i am feeling happens in my relationships. Has something major happened in your life, perhaps while growing up to make you feel like you need to be loved? for me it was a strained relationship with my family.

NA