Hey All,

Not sure if I've posted again too soon since asking about my Dad, so no rush if I have...just need to put it out there while it's still fresh.

I met a guy around Easter and we formed a friendship.  I later found out he had a girlfriend and even though it was disappointing I still enjoyed having him as a friend.  

About two weeks ago a bunch of us went out on a Saturday night and something ended up happening between us.  When we finally spoke about it he clearly felt guilty for cheating on his girlfriend but also expressed his feelings for me.

So I guess my question is where will things go from here?  Will there be more, will we remain as friends or will he go weird on me and slowly phase me out?

Eloise
March 4, 1983

Well first of all I think that you need to figure out how you feel about it all and if you can still be JUST friends with him.... Next you need to talk to him and tell him just how you feel... If you want to put it behind you then do so, and if you don't then let him know that you feel more for him than friendship but that the ball is in his court, don't let it happen again... you don't want to be the one in a bad situation if his g/f finds out... Just be open and honest and try your best to find a way through it... I personally think that you don't need a reading for this, just some good advice, and mine is just that figure out what you want and let him know and find out where he is... either he wants to leave her or he doesn't... but you can only do what is right for you.... so make sure that you know where you stand and leave the rest to him... He has to figure it out... and we can't really read him...

I know this isn't exactly what you asked for, but I hope that it helps you anyways, good luck hon'

Nyte

Nyte,

You're absolutely right, as that's what I've been thinking all along too, but I thought I could do with a push in the right direction.  I don't want to be the "other woman", hence why I've chosen not to do anything more about the situation.

Elo

Wait, aren't you already the other woman?

Yeah, of course I am...what I mean is, I don't want to continue being the other woman.