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Posts: 52 · Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 8:31 pm

Hi everyone,

Some changes have occurred within me the last few weeks or months. It's not been easy, but I seem to be opening up spiritually and emotionally & feel more "in line" with my goals.

Still, there's loneliness that can take me down at times..
Will I find Her?

Any insights into this matter would be really helpful..
-thursday

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 12:47 am

Welcome Yoerie,

If you are asking whether I predict that you will necessarily find that special woman out there just waiting for you during the next six months or so (the generally accepted period of time for a reading of this type) then your reading tells me that your chances are unfortunately fairly slim. However it is not impossible that this will happen, and you should never take this reading so seriously as to mean that you should turn down any opportunity for romance in the near future, if it presents itself.

If instead you were asking whether or not I will you will ever meet that special woman whom you will want to share your most cherished hopes and dreams with, then your chances look considerably better. While I am certain that you are already thinking about and making a mental or written list of the qualities you are looking for (as well as those you could not live with) in the woman of your dreams, as well as then visiting the types of places you would most expect to meet her, quite a lot depends on how much you already value and respect (self love) yourself.

If we each do not love ourselves enough (value plus respect instead of vanity), then why would we then expect someone else to love us? Either such a woman must be a complete fool, or she must be after us for something other than true love. Hey you are basically a good and decent person who is trying to do his very best under what are sometimes very difficult circumstances, so why then should you feel that you do not deserve the greatest reward that life can offer us - the love and support of an equally good woman? Even if we have personally attained great wealth and success in other areas of our life, what is the purpose of having all of this if you have nobody to share it with?

You are absolutely correct in saying that you have made significant progress towards achieving your life goals over the last few months, but I do sadly feel that your love and social life have had to both take a temporary back seat to your other ambitions. This was I feel absolutely necessary during this hectic period, but now that you at least feel you are once again moving in the right direction for you career wise etc, it is again time to focus more of your time and energy into getting out there where the action is.

I am not suggesting for one moment that you should let all these other important aspects of your life slip and possibly make yourself ill by attempting to too frequently burn the midnight candle (overdo things), but I do sense on the basis of this reading that you now urgently need to restore or regain a renewed sense of balance between finding a suitable partner, and the remaining areas of your life.

While you have provided me with your full DOB this time, I opted against giving you a Life Path reading using numerology this time, as I believed (wrongly or rightly) that you would only interpret it as being further evidence that you have somehow failed to attract a mate and that it is therefore entirely your fault that you still find yourself feeling lonely (including in a romantic sense).

Honestly, with the significant, sweeping changes you have been making in other life areas throughout the last few months, I do not feel you had any other valid choice than to assign your love and social life a temporarily lower priority, in order to be able to achieve all that you have. If this is to be interpreted in your case as failure, then there is I feel very little hope left for any of the rest of us (as the need to sometimes do this is a fact of life).

Cheers my friend,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 52 · Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 7:39 am

Thank you very much eye_of_tiger!
It's good to know the situation isn't completely hopeless yet =).
I do feel like I'm back on the right track now & unfortunately my social and love life had to suffer because of all this seeking and learning.
I'm going to get out more the next couple of months. I think my guides are telling me I should do this too (I'm starting to get a clearer link during meditation).
Let's hope this works out well!

Thanks again Tiger =)

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 12:51 am

Thursday,

You are always very welcome.

You asked in your response and I quote:

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But doesn't your reading suggest there's only a very slim chance that she'll fall in love with me?

What I actually said was:

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If you are asking whether I predict that you will necessarily find that special woman out there just waiting for you during the next six months or so (the generally accepted period of time for a reading of this type) then your reading tells me that your chances are unfortunately fairly slim.

Not knowing that you already had a particular woman in mind, I was saying that within the generally accepted period of time for a reading of this type (six months) that I felt your chances of meeting such a person were slim. It was not saying anything about your chances that you would eventually learn to love one another.

Since you already know of such a person, surely your chances of making significant progress with your relationship with her during the next six months also increases, IF ONLY YOU PLAY YOUR CARDS RIGHT, AND ARE WILLING TO TAKE THE RISK OF BEING REJECTED THE FIRST TIME YOU ASK.

Does she even know yet that you are interested in getting to know her better? Honestly I would approach her and find out directly from the source if you might have a possible future together (do not try forcing things along according to your own time schedule, but keep it cool), rather than merely leaving it to your spirit guide to decide on your behalf.

Namaste,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 52 · Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 9:14 am

Okay Tiger, thanks for the clarification!