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Posts: 5 · Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:53 am

thankyou for reading this. I am 34 years old and am happy although I have been single for 7 years. I don't want much just simple things in life. My name is Roberta, now, although I was given the name Bobbie at birth, my date of birth is the 11th August 1973. Thankyou all so much

Could anyone please tell me if I will be in a serious relationship and in love, and have any more children?

Thankyou. Bobbie

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 2:35 am

Hi Bobbie,

You asked if we can predict whether you will have any more children, so can I safely assume that you are already caring for existing children as a single parent of seven years? Whether or not you currently have young children under your care, your social and love lives have largely taken a back seat while you learnt to deal with the huge demands placed upon you during this time. I also sense that financially things have been in the past considerably better than they are now, which further restricts your ability to get out of the house and to be able to visit the places where you would most expect to meet the type of man who you have been dreaming about.

Whether you have become single as a result of a death or merely a failed relationship through no fault of your own, even after 7 years I feel that you are still effectively grieving for what might have been if things had turned out differently between you and your child's/children's father. I also feel a strong sense of the burden of guilt you are continuing to carry around with you, which is perfectly normal for any human being to experience. You may be taking much of the blame for factors which were completely beyond your control at the time they happened, and possibly are beginning to buy into the belief that if only you had worked harder since your partner left you that you would be in a better situation than you find yourself in now.

I believe on the other hand that any God who expects more from us than to do our very best with what we have already been given is neither worthy of our attention or praise. Doing your very best under sometimes adverse circumstances will never lead to perfection at least in this world, but that often does not stop people like ourselves from trying to be perfect in every way possible. In other words, while I am not ignoring or saying that you do not have a lot to cope with in your daily life, in order to keep both your own life and the life of those who love and depend upon you on track, much of the stress you are presently feeling is coming from within.

Through the decisions you make in so many different areas of your life in the present moment (your only true point of power) you are creating your personal future as I speak, so the best I feel I can do is to predict what your most likely future would be if you took some positive practical steps to both reduce the levels of stress you are feeling within you, as well as doing whatever you can to increase your own feelings of self worth.

Now if your finances are getting low, I would not suggest that you should suddenly try some retail therapy (shopping spree) or take unnecessary or dangerous risks with what money you still have. This will only make you feel less in control of your own life than you may already feel now. At the same time it is vitally important for you to take care of your health and to enjoy some simple relatively inexpensive luxuries which make our lives seem that much more worth living. Be certain to also spend some quality time with yourself alone each day, getting some of your own equally important needs met as well as those of any of your dependants. If you do not feel good about yourself, how can you possibly give them a feeling of their own self worth? If you continue to ALWAYS sacrifice yourself for them to be able to enjoy a relatively happy life (I do not believe we that were meant to be happy 24/7), you are not going to be around to watch them grow up into the sort of person you would hope they might become.

On the basis of this reading I predict that if you will only take and act upon some of the suggestions I have provided above in your daily life, then this will not only have huge benefits for your own feelings of self worth and your ability to cope more effectively with the many stresses of living as a single person, but it will greatly increase your chances of taking maximum advantage of any romantic opportunities which may present themselves to you over the next six months or so (the accepted period for a reading of this type). It is just as important for you to get more clearly in your own mind as to what you are unwilling to accept or put up with in the type of man for whom you are looking, than what you feel are his better points (understood?). If your eventual union is blessed with another child or children, then this was meant to be.

Wishing you good health, love and increasing happiness over the coming months and years,

eye_of_tiger (Adelaide, South Australia)

Posts: 5 · Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 12:23 pm

Thankyou very much eye-of-tiger. I know you are right and will work on everything you have said. I need to retrain myself to think differently. Thankyou again for your time.

Bobble (Adelaide, South Australia)