can i please get a reading on my love life, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 46 · Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 6:00 am

I would like a reading on my love life any information will be grateful
my name is sarah 30/07/1983 born 02:15 am in australia

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 12:23 am

Welcome Sarah,

It is always nice to meet another true blue Aussie on these MB forums.

Could you please tell us whether or not you are currently in a long term relationship?

Or whether you have recently left a previous one, which has failed?

Please help us to better help you, as I do not wish to offer you advice which is not relevant to your particular life circumstances.

We aim to serve you to the very best of our abilities, and look forward to being able to offer you some useful insights with regards to your love life

L&L,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 46 · Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:30 am

Hi eye of the tiger

I'm currently in a long term relationship

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 12:03 am

Thank you Sarah,

With reference to your existing relationship, I have been prompted by my own inner guidance to draw the following three cards on your behalf.

Nine of Pentacles

The Nines of any suit are believed to mean that whatever you most desire as the querent (the person requesting the reading) is about to come true for you. Nines are thought to be exceptionally powerful cards, and are often seem as a sign that you have effectively completed an important phase of your relationship, and are now taking a temporary breather in order to look back at what you have been able to achieve sometimes under very adverse circumstances, with some justifiable pride and a degree of personal satisfaction. The Nine of Pentacles (sometimes substituted by coins) tells me that you are likely to soon receive a medium size financial windfall which while it will not make you an instant millionaire overnight, it will at least give you both more money left over to finally be able to enjoy some of the little luxuries in life which make it seem worth living. While you should not deny yourself of such creature comforts, there is a danger that you could both get to like this so much that you could potentially withdraw into a life where material pleasures are given a much higher priority in your life than they should. The stuffy old term of hedonism or of you yourself being a hedonist basically means that you could all too easily get to enjoy the good things in life and the pursuit of material pleasures so much that the really important things in your relationship with your current partner will be sacrificed in order for you to have a partnership which lacks both purpose and direction. It certainly does not necessarily mean that you will choose to do this, but it simply warns you of the possibility, and leaves it at that. Do not attempt to separate your spiritual beliefs from your relationship with this or any other man. It will not work!

The World

So you feel that you would like to share your most cherished hopes and dreams with your boyfriend, and are about to move as one person out into the world at large in order to hopefully have a long and relatively happy relationship with him over the coming years. The World within a reading suggests both the idea of creation, or of things between you as a couple having now come full circle. You have established (or are about to) a very firm foundation for your relationship upon which you will be able to build in the future and this is therefore a time for you to give yourself some long overdue credit for persevering when a lesser woman would have probably given up long ago. I do get a distinct feeling with you both that the old saying that love rarely goes as smoothly as we hoped it would is also true in your case. This does not mean that everything about your relationship has gone wrong, but it does mean that there have been some disappointments and disagreements, in between the better times. In other words, while you should both try to remain as positive about your future together as it is humanly possible to be, you still need to enter upon this relationship while keeping your inner eyes fully open. I suspect that you are experiencing issues with lack of trust, although there is at least at present nothing in this reading that suggests that your possible doubts about his true intentions towards you have any basis in reality. Trust cannot be bought. It must be earned over a period of time through the person's actions, rather than through their possibly empty words?

Strength

A card suggesting both courage and energy. Continue to have courage and persevere with your relationship, even in the face of adversity. When it comes to a competition between inner strength and external physical brute force, invariably inner strength will win more times than lose. When the inevitable conflicts occur within your relationship, do not attempt to beat him at his own game as you will rarely convince him about anything which he is not yet prepared to hear or accept. Beauty and wisdom will eventually tame the most savage of beasts (no offence is intended towards your boyfriend by this remark), so be careful not to tread too hard upon his sometimes very fragile male ego in the process. It is a matter of you more comfortably balancing your own equally important needs against his, and his greatest need I feel at present is to be seen to be in control most of the time. This is not because he is some sort of control freak, but it is more likely to be a symptom of his own insecurity as the male partner. To a certain degree you must assure that he does not lose face and defend his male pride, but on the other side of the coin you need to also assert your own right to make important decisions which could potentially affect both of you over the longer term. As long as he does not begin to feel that you are trying to take all control over the relationship away from him and you can work co-operatively together as a couple, rather than as two separate individuals, then this card strongly suggests to me that you do have a future with one another, although it is not going to be always a case of you living happily together ever after. There will continue to be good times spent together, as well as the not so good ones?

Wishing you all the love and happiness for the future you so deserve, whether it be with this man, or perhaps with someone else. Only you can decide how far you are willing to go, and for how long you are willing to wait for him to come around more to your own way of thinking.

Your's truly,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 46 · Posted: Mon Nov 19, 2007 2:08 am

Thank you for this reading
my partner is in a middle of a compensation claim so that could be the medium size financial windfall you talked about.
and I do have trust issues with my partner. I feel sometimes its so hard to make the relationship work but we are going through a rough patch at the moment. Thank you for your insights I see things more clearly