Can I have a reading please *puppy eyes*, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 20 · Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 7:23 am

My name is Oi Ling 23/6/1984 (f) and my ex is Cindy 19/1/1985 (f). We had a bad breakup because of arguments due to her ex M. She decided not to be friends with me anymore. I would like to know who she loves the most and will she come back either as a friend or reunite with me or we will just act like strangers when we meet? Thank you so much for the reading...^^

Posts: 1056 · Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 8:25 pm

I personally don't think you need a reading for this, only to communicate with her that you would still like to have her in your life as a friend... or perhaps if you could work out the issues more than that... I mean at this point she isn't in your life right? SO really what do you have to lose? if she says no then you can move on and not keep thinking what if, and if she says yes then you have something to work with.... Talking to someone we care about is often hard, but the best way to find the answers we seek...

*shrugs* I am sorry if this wasn't what you wanted, perhaps someone here will give you a reading... but I think that you can handle this on your own... just ask the questions you want answers to.

Nyte

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 10:35 pm

As my very good friend Nyte has already told you, we would be pleased to give you a reading, as long as it was within the forum rules. Attempting to read Cindy's mind and determine who she truly loves would require a third party reading, which is unfortunately for you not permitted on this site.

I would however suggest that we could still give you a love/relationship reading by turning the spotlight back upon you (the person requesting this reading), as long as you realise that Cindy has the right to decide with whom she will have a relationship and that if she has made her mind up that you are not the right man for her (and I am not saying that I feel she has), there is virtually nothing which we could do through a psychic reading, to force her to suddenly change her mind. Cindy must forever remain the biggest unknown factor in this equation - we are psychic readers and not mind readers (there is a very big difference between the two).

Your love/relationship reading given by one of the volunteer readers on this board should follow within the next couple of days, UNLESS you tell us that you have decided not to go ahead with this in the meantime.

I know that you are really looking for a definite answer either way to your question, but perhaps we can still offer you some useful insights to make this a little easier for the both of you, regardless.

Love and Light,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 20 · Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2007 5:24 am

Thanks nyte and eye of tiger...Oops...I misunderstood that I can't request a reading on behalf of my friends instead of request a reading for a third party. Sorry my bad...Yeah I would like some insights and advices from the readers...Thanks...

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2007 11:11 pm

Oi Ling,

As I explained in my earlier posting, there is very little that we can do as psychic readers to change Cindy's mind, once it has been made up. I do not know what caused you to break up with each other in the first place (it is not my business to know this), but unless circumstances have changed markedly since then I feel that your chances of getting back together as a loving couple are fairly remote. I also feel that you would not be satisfied to remain simply good friends with Cindy for any longer than was necessary, as you would find it too painful to be so close to her and not to be able to say what is in your heart. I know you still have deep feelings for her (or this would not have been such an important issue for you), but my feelings are that at least for the immediate future, Cindy is not going to be willing to listen to anything you might have to say about this subject.

Could I please suggest to you that on the basis of this reading that while Cindy's mind seems to be temporarily closed to discussing getting back together with each other, she does I feel need some tender loving care and that you might very well be the one person who could make her think more positively about herself again? In other words, if you do decide to contact Cindy, rather than talking about getting back together, simply tell her that you miss her and that your shoulder is always available if she needs one to cry on. While she may presently be resisting any efforts on your part to heal your relationship, once she and you are at least communicating with and seeing each other in person, I feel that nature and the chemistry between you might work their magic as long as you do not mention the subject of taking your relationship with her to the next level.

I sense considerable feelings of confusion from both of you, but I do remain hopeful that (unless she has moved on to someone else in the meantime) Cindy will eventually realise how sorry you are that whatever came between you that lead to your breakup could not have been fixed in time in order to prevent this from ever happening. I feel that it was a communication problem which lead to this mess in the first place, and that it is only through much more effective communication on more than one level (your body language and actions tell her much more about the type of man you are, than what you might say) that you could possibly get back together.

I say possibly not because I am not trying as hard as I can to continue to feel positive that in time Cindy and yourself will once more be a couple, but as I emphasised before we each have the divine right of free will and if the reason which lead to your breakup has wounded her heart too deeply, then I feel that any healing she requires will take too long for you to wait indefinitely hoping for something which may sadly never happen. In the end only you can decide how far you are willing to go and how long you are willing to wait for Cindy to come around again to your way of thinking. Eventually, you may need to learn to accept that this particular relationship is now finally over, and that it is time for you both to move on with your respective lives without each other (but with someone else).

Kindest regards,

eye_of_tiger