Ok, I'm new here. New to most of this. Also I'm hoping for a possible reading.

Right now, I'm going through a confused state. I'm pretty sure I fell for my best friend (I'm a guy, so that makes it a her, lol), but I have no idea how to deal with it, and also I haven't had the will power to work hard at anything latly and it shows.
With my first problem, I'm afraid I will never know how she feels for me unless I confront her about how I feel, but that scares the hell out of me even thinking about, 'cause I don't want it to be opposite of the way i feel. It's a wierd situation. She recently got out of a relationship, I've tried to be there for her, but she doesn't open up about these things and I want her to be able too with me. I try to tell her that she can. I think she's afraid of getting any closer to me than her best friend.

How come you always fall for your best friend? ha...

For what its worth, I'm a Scorpio (11-21-90) and she is a Pisces.

Thanks for reading.  

Hi Ranger07,

Welcome to the site. I'm one of the readers and will be happy to give you a reading in the next day or two, if no other reader can get to you. We have a number of excellent, caring readers here. Tonight I had a long psychic healing to perform and I'm drained
What I can give you is some old fashioned advice. One of the reasons you are afraid is you use the word confront ( her ). That word subconsciously conjurs up an image of a confrontation, fear, conflict. I would recommend you think of it as having a conversation to explore her feelings. Also be a bit of a salesman. You can begin by asking her in general terms how she feels about friends eventually becoming more... If she's a bit negative, tell her you understand how she feels, since many people have felt that way- but what they found was a relationship with someone you know can be  more comfortable and lasting than just dating a complete stranger. Something along those lines..You can use a soft approach and go slow- giving her time to get over her last relationship.
Also, it's human nature to develop feelings for people we interact with regularly, sometimes developing affection and other times romance.
Even people who have never physically met develop friendly affectionate feelings for each other, as you'll find by the friends you'll make at this site.  

While you're waiting for a reading, look around the site- you'll find a number of interesting sections and maybe make some new friends here  

Joe

Hmmm I wanted to add into the general advice... Why don't you try asking her why she won't talk to you about her problems, and or thoughts/feelings.... (I know kinda of girl thing to say) but I think that in doing that it will help you to understand why she is resistant to the relationship thing... I am with someone who was my best friend for four years, before we started dating and it was because I  didn't want to lose him as part of my life if it didn't work out... he also told me that I was the kind of girl that I guy waited for and I never understood it until I realized that I had feelings for him and that I wanted more than friendship from him.. though I still had reservations about losing him if it didn't work out... I was 17 when I met him and I was almost 21 when we got together... the last 6 almost 7 years have been amazing.. and we are good together.. and he always tells me that I was worth the wait and that he would have waited longer if I had needed it... *sigh* I wasn't sure that he felt like that about me, but I needed time to figure out that he was who I was looking for... I just wanted to let you know at least one girls reasons for not dating someone she was attracted to....

He was more important to me than just a guy to date.... so you might want to look at that aspect of it too... that she worries about losing someone in her life that means more to her than just a friend... a best friend is someone worth holding on too....

                   Nyte

Thanks you teo.

I do really want to take a chance, but I'm not a big chance taker. Only way I see myself ever doing something about it, is if she would talk to me aobut it, because i have to have a general idea of the outcome. I don't want anything to hurt our friendship and i'm afraid that is what could happen.

Hi Ranger,

Here's my intuitive advice. I'm using my psychic side now, not just one guy to another.
I see a positive outcome, if you start talking about it with her in December. I asked myself if you would get a positive response from her and got a yes. Then I asked myself when the timing would be best and I got after U.S. Thanksgiving Holiday. That's why I'm saying December. I'm usually pretty good with clairvoyant relationship issues. I even got her name and general description of what she looks like and will PM it to you in case you don't want it shown here.    


By the way, My name is Joe as in Joseph  
( I know my screen name is confusing LOL )