Requesting a love reading please, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 11 · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 3:40 am

Would be most appreciative if someone could give me a love reading. Was wondering if I'll be meeting someone promising in the near future? (Or Should I prepare for the nunhood?) he-he I went out a few weeks ago with a guy and not sure if something promising will develop? My name is Paula and my DOB is 2-12-69.

Thank you.

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 11:45 pm

Dear Paula,

Have you heard from the guy you went out with a few weeks ago since you last met him face to face, as unless he has made the effort to contact you since then, I am sorry but I do not like your chances at least with this particular person? I do not however feel that things have got so bad yet with regard to the stakes in matters of the heart that you should personally consider taking a vow of celibacy, and becoming a nun (but I am sensitive to your feelings of urgency in believing that you might be left permanently single).

Would I be correct in feeling that your age is only one factor possibly responsible for your difficulties in finding a suitable partner? I get the distinct impression that it is a case of once burnt, twice shy. In other words, I do not feel that it would be your first serious long term relationship, if and when it happened. It is as if rather than any of your past relationships having made you older but wiser now, you have had your heart wounded on more than one occasion and are consequently unintentionally holding yourself back from the very thing you say that you most want, in order to ensure that you are not hurt in quite the same way ever again. I sense a certain degree of hesitancy towards you forming a new relationship, but at the same time a great amount of urgency.

You have one foot on the throttle flattened to the floor, but the other is pushing down hard on the brake pedal, as though your life depended on it. You are madly spinning your wheels and raring to go, but because you are looking for some type of rock solid guarantee this time that your past experiences in love will never be repeated, you are denying yourself of the opportunities to discover that you are not destined to relive your past over and over again, and while there will always be challenges ahead for you when living with a man on a day to day basis, if you both truly love one another, then most of what you have been worrying yourself so much about can be worked out co-operatively between you if the common motivation to make your relationship work is still there.

United you will stand together strong as a couple, but if you on the surface exist as a couple but continue to function as two separate individuals who just happen to live under the same roof, you will surely fall. You do I feel need to be practical in realising that a man who desires children is probably going to be considering a younger woman than yourself to be their mother. Having your first child at 40 plus certainly can happen as it has for many others, but I do not believe that we are biologically designed for having to cope with all the demands of parenthood when we are ourselves already in in our 60s, with teenagers and young adults living in our home. But then again there are increasing numbers of couples who are deciding that they will either delay or completely forget about having children, and focus instead on their respective careers or on doing what they both want to while free of such family responsibilities, so there is still every reason for you to remain hopeful (especially if having children is not a priority for you).

Your DOB (2-12-1969) tells me using numerology that you have a Life Path Number of THREE.

2+1+2+1+9+6+9=30 3+0=3

People with this particular LPN generally get on very well and enjoy connecting socially with many people at a time, although when it comes to forming a close relationship they can be very serious about looking for a commitment from their partner, and often have issues with trust. While they can be the life of the party with their friends, they do not take very kindly to any signs of infidelity from their man, even if these signs eventually turn out to have no basis in reality. In other words, jealousy and suspicion can frequently be the mark of an LPN 3 woman whose trust has been betrayed in the past, and who therefore understandably does not wish it to happen again to her.

I am not saying here that acts of infidelity do not happen, but I am telling you that if you go into every relationship as if it is inevitable that it will happen at some stage of your relationship, you could be unintentionally conditioning your subconscious mind to attract the type of man who would be most likely to stray from your bed, whenever he next has the opportunity and temptation.

By all means keep your eyes wide open when entering upon your next relationship/romance, but just do not continue to focus almost entirely on the possibility? You are a sensitive soul and you have a distinct tendency to withdraw into yourself and allow these doubts and fears to get a foothold, when if you would only be more open about your feelings with other people (your partner included), then you would not so often magnify every little thing in your mind to the point that you find them so convincing as evidence of his lack of love and emotional commitment towards you.

Because you are so sensitive (highly empathic) to other people's feelings, you believe that everyone can similarly read your's, but you are frequently wrong. Unless you honestly tell them what is currently bothering you, most people in my own experience make terrible mind readers. Honest two way communication within ANY human relationship (or a distinct lack of it) often makes a major difference as to whether or not you will enjoy a relatively happy and long life together as a couple, or whether you will soon separate and go your own ways as individuals.

I am not predicting either way on the basis of this reading that you will or will not find a suitable partner within the next six months or so. There are simply too many unknown factors which could affect your chances. My main purpose for giving you this reading then was to make you aware of certain aspects of your personality which could either be working in your favour in your love life, or could perhaps be working against you. They say that becoming aware that a problem exists is the first small but critical step towards finding a possible solution? You also possess so many positive personal qualities as well, that any man in his right mind should feel himself fortunate to have you as his life partner. Stop beating up on yourself for being an FHB - a Fallible Human Being!!!

Love, Light and increasing Happiness to you, now and in the future,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 11 · Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 3:56 am

Thank you for your reply. No, I have not heard from the guy I met a few weeks ago. I emailed him to thank him for dinner, but have not received a reply. Oh, well. Life goes on.

You say I may have been burnt in the past. Yes/No is my answer. I was engaged once and thank God I didn't marry the person. I think I've been very busy w/ my career, finishing my education, and helping/supporting my family to really have thought of my personal happiness. Well, at least I can delay my entry into a convent.

I agree that any guy who gets me would be lucky. (I'm not use to saying that.) Thank you again.

Posts: 160 · Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 8:43 am

Hi Paula,

I have to add a few things to EOT's terrific reading, since we have the same life path number 3 (I'm an Empath also by the way).
I get psychic ifo. mainly via clairvoyance and clairaudience, so I see and hear things. When I was reading your post I got an impression of you meeting the man you'll settle down with. His name sounds like Shawn, slightly taller than average, dark hair, brown eyes, dresses in business attire for work. He has a birthmark on his neck-like a small mole. You'll meet him in an office type environment. He drives a small two door car- like a BMW Roadster. I see a wedding ceremony with you and him- he's definitely about 6 feet tall because I see a good difference in your sizes since you're closer to 5 feet. When I ask when the romance begins, I get the begining of next year.

Love and Light

Joe

Posts: 11 · Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:20 pm

Joe,
Thank you for your reading. You gave me goosebumps. Yes, I'm petite (5'2 tall). Well, I doubt I'll meet anyone at work since I work mostly w/ women. But-I'll keep my eyes out. I now understand my personality characteristics (Number 3). I guess I've always put others (e.g., parents) ahead of my happiness. Thank you again.