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Posts: 11 · Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 10:09 pm

Hi,

I need some advice or some kind of direction of where to go in life. I feel as if things dont change then there is no hope for me. I know I have to change a few things with my life in general I just dont know where to start or even how to begin. I just feel as if I am at a standstill in my life and this is how its always going to be with my job and with not meeting anyone.

thank you

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 4:22 am

Hi Dee,

There is absolutely no doubt that things will continue to change in your life (some of it in a more positive direction), so I feel that you therefore have a very good reason for feeling hopeful.

Could I please remind you that change is one of the very few constants which we can depend on in our lives, and that good or bad and positive or negative are only the labels which we personally place upon these changes which happen to us, while we are busily making other plans?

Also while most of us think we have a very good idea of what we want or expect from life, most of us have absolutely no concept of what we so badly need. What I am trying to say here is that a change that may at first on the surface appear bad or negative, may with the luxury of hindsight turn out to be exactly what was in our own best interests or most needed by us all along.

Also be very careful what you most focus upon or wish for or it might just come true, and you could find all too late that it is not anything like it was cracked up to be. There are many times in my own life when I believed that the worse I could ever imagine has just come true, but later I realised that it was actually a positive turning point in my life and that many wonderful experiences which happened after it would have been impossible if this change had not come along at just the right time. On the other hand I have sometimes got exactly what I thought I wanted, but it only made me happy for a short period of time and I then looked to finding something even better.

The problem with this is that each event has to be bigger and better than the one before in order to keep us motivated enough to keep going. But our time, energies and bank account balance are necessarily limited, and a life spent looking only for better and bigger experiences with the purpose of making ourselves continuously happy is I feel a life no longer worth living, especially to a caring and sensitive woman such as your good self.

Although you may feel that your life is effectively at a standstill, and you are getting nowhere fast, I wish to assure and comfort you by saying that your life is unfolding exactly as it should, and that it was hardly a coincidence that you requested this reading now. I see from your reading that you are presently on a bit of a spiritual plateau or in a temporary holding pattern, and I would suggest that you should take full advantage of the opportunities it gives you to recharge your spiritual batteries, while you still have the time to do so.

There is is considerable drawing together of loose ends and frantic preparation for what is still to come, currently going on behind the scenes in your life by guides and helpers still unseen. Do not lose heart or become too dispirited if things do not seem to be at least moving in the right general direction, whether it involves your job or having a relationship at this time.

Patience was never your greatest personal virtue (join the club), although I empathise with and remain sensitive to your confusion and emotional pain in beginning to believe that you are somehow destined to be alone without a man, for the rest of your life. I was also a very late developer when it came to matters of the heart, but my wife and I are celebrating our 29th wedding anniversary in early January 2008.

While I do not feel that our nervous systems were designed for such a rapid rate of change, try not to see any change that you do not immediately see as being quite what you expected as a reason for throwing in the towel. The temporary lull or holding pattern will end soon enough without you getting yourself so upset that you could easily undo all the positive progress you have made up to this point (but have never given yourself the well deserved credit for).

Over the next six to twelve months you will probably look back at this lull in activities with fond memories, and wish that things would slow down a little to what they were then. In other words make the very most you can of this rest break, or you could live to regret not doing so!

Hoping this helps and comforts you in knowing that you are not doing anything wrong, other than perhaps adding to the stress that is already being placed on you through your own unwise thought habits. Thoughts themselves are neutral. It is the force of the intention behind them as well as the emotions and feelings they create which will in the end decide whether they will have a mainly positive or negative influence in your life?

May your God go with you always,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 3 · Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 2:03 pm

look into your heart...follow what it tells you...you seems like you already have your answers...just getting a confirmation...you say you have started changes things in your life...this is a good start...do not look for love it will find you when you dont even expect it....try pushing all the negitive out and replace it with postive...try putting things down on a piece of paper...pros and cons...you will see that the pros have a direction...this will put you back on the path that you need to be on...remember when things go haywire it is a life test...and treat it as such...get through it with positive thinking and attitude...when this passes again on your path you will know how to get through it without negitivity...go with what your heart is telling you...

Posts: 11 · Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 2:22 am

thank you