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Posts: 19 · Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 12:01 am

I know I don't have 10 posts yet, but I'm in desperate need of a reading or advice. I feel like I need to make MAJOR changes in my life in reguards to everything, but I have no idea where to start. I'm at this breaking/turning point and I have no clue which way to go. So if anyone could give the tinyest bit of insight or help I would be so appreciative. Thank you so much. -Ashley

Posts: 1056 · Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 3:15 am

Ashley,
Hey hon' I don't have enough to make a connection for a reading, but I wanted to let you know that I will keep checking back until I do, perhaps someone else can connect with you... although I know that it is one of the reasons why they ask you to post so much before asking for a reading, so there is more to go on. If you would simply like to talk about your problems I am here... I am sorry that I can't give you more.. Best of luck and hope to hear from you soon.

Nyte

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 4:30 am

Dear Ashley,

Within the site reading rule guidelines, it is left entirely up to the reader concerned to decide whether or not he or she feels intuitively drawn towards giving you a reading. Please do not worry yourself any more about this, as you already have my complete understanding and attention.

I am genuinely sorry that you feel that life has been treating you so poorly, and I cannot know exactly what it feels like to be a person in your particular situation. However the really important message I wanted to get across to you through this reading is that although bad things will always continue to happen to good people such as yourself, you are never left to cope with this all by yourself.

Not only have I heard your call for help, but but there are unseen guides and helpers here who have only been waiting for your request to spring into action. Honestly they only wish you had done this sooner, as there is a cosmic law which prevents them from intervening on your behalf unless you first ask for their assistance and support (as you have just so bravely done). Do not be too hard on yourself for forgetting about or not knowing this, as your guide probably knows even better than you do how difficult your life has been at least up until now. In other words, rather than thinking any less of you for finally doing so, we are all delighted that you took this small but important step towards your own healing.

Would I be correct in assuming that you have always experienced problems in giving yourself enough credit for a job well done? Would I also be right in feeling that you have been brought up to believe that to take justifiable pride in the quality of your work and the way in which you live your life is a sin and a sign of your vanity?

The Bible tells us to love our neighbour (which basically means anyone other than ourselves), but to love another we must surely first learn to better understand and love (value and respect) ourselves for being the wonderful shining being we undoubtedly are.

Yes you have your personal faults, but so do all of us as well. How can we give our "neighbours" something we will not first give ourselves (love and compassion). I have always believed that a God who expects each of us to do any more than to do our very best with what he or she has already given us is not worthy of our respect and praise, so if our Creator regards us as his/her own unconditionally loved child, do we have the right to disagree with the One who created the Universe (including us)?

While I cannot offer you a magic formula which is suddenly going to take all these problems away from you, I do feel that anything I can say or you can do which will make you feel more confident within yourself that you will ultimately get through these difficult times is definitely going to be to your advantage (and mine as well, as I do not like to see my friends being unhappy).

Unfortunately everyone at some time(s) in their life will wonder whether or not this mystery we call life is worth all the time and effort we put into persevering with our own problems, and everyone at times feels lost and alone. If you think more deeply about it, even if we are constantly surrounded by our friends and loved ones, life can be for many people a basically lonely experience or existence. This is mainly because we live a great portion of our lives in our own heads believing that we are entirely separate individuals, when spiritual teachers throughout the ages have taught that we are all part of the One, and that eventually when our Earthly cycle of incarnations is over, to the One we will all return.

Now I know I am possibly overemphasising this point of the illusion of separation, but just as you we as readers need to feel a sense of connection with those people we read for, we each in turn need to feel an increased sense of connection with both our own inner selves and our fellow human beings (as well as all living creatures). I also think that you feel unnecessarily guilty if you allowed yourself to relax for just a moment, as though you have taken everybody else's problems as well as your own on your shoulders. It is as if you bear the entire world's problems by believing that if you devoted some quality time to yourself that the whole planet would rapidly come to a complete halt.

My advice to you would be that while you do need to make plans for the future, also take some time out and then to be more in the present moment. Instead of saying to you "do not just sit there, but do something QUICK", my inner voice is saying to you, "just sit there and BE". It is not to my knowledge yet a punishable crime to take some time to yourself in order to recharge your own spiritual batteries.

Not only will you then be much more well prepared for whatever the future might hold in store for you, but you are very likely going to be much better company for your friends and significantly happier within yourself. This sounds to me like a WIN - WIN situation for everybody concerned (including your good self), and I therefore enthusiastically encourage you to take a maximum rest period of up to 30 minutes maximum each day in doing something which is entirely for your own benefit, so that for the rest of your waking hours you can better help others as well as yourself in overcoming their and your problems.

Please let me know whether this intuitive reading has been of some help and comfort to you. My main purpose for giving it was NOT to predict precisely when you will overcome each problem and in what order, but rather it was to better prepare you for whatever challenges arise at any time in your life. Begin by becoming your own best friend (practise self love), and I feel that your life will soon become much brighter for you.

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 1056 · Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 3:54 am

*smilies at EOT* I know I say this a lot but you rock!! I am happy to see that you could connect with her... *waves* That is all I wanted to tell you... *smile*

Posts: 32 · Posted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 2:08 pm

Hi, I haven't done readings online until today. I saw your request and thought maybe I could help...hoping so. I got the feeling that you have total life changes to make not just major ones. You are afraid of crashing and burning with this one. I think you can usually handle stressors pretty well but not when they come at you from everywhere at once. I would say that once you start sleeping good again on your own you will have the answers with more clarity. Could you try meditation on one problem at night when you go to bed? If you lay with your arms to your side and breath in deeply and slowly while concentrating on the problem while listening to your breath you may get a direction or answer in your sleep. Another thing is do the same thing but imagine a TV set with the news show titled "Answers to your problems" on it. Look for the headlines and see what comes up.
I do this for big problems and sometimes I see the negative outcome to avoid and others the solution. It seems to simple but it can work.
Hope this helps.
Debie