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Posts: 5 · Posted: Wed Oct 24, 2007 11:37 pm

Hello, I would like a reading relating to my love life please. My birthday is 07/28/91. I feel lost right now in this aspect, and I need guidance. Thank you.

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 4:07 am

Dear Marie,

Since I have already given you a Life Path career reading based on your date of birth on August 17th, I can see little useful purpose in repeating this again in all it's entirety.

Your life path number which I did not show in your previous reading was calculated using numerology as being ONE.

7+2+8+1+9+9+1=37 3+7=10 1+0=1

One of the possible downsides with regard to forming and maintaining close relationships for the LPN 1 type person is that they feel that they have such definite needs with a burning ambition to get those needs met, that they can frequently become so self absorbed or highly focussed upon attaining their goals by whatever means are available to them that their social and love life often suffers as a direct consequence.

In other words while a drive to succeed and a strong desire to do you very best at all times is a worthy ideal to work towards in a perfect world, this world and you are far from being that. Up to a certain point wanting to do your best and to carefully plan your career direction is often the best possible strategy for having a successful life, the ultimate cost of seeking perfection and 100% security can be far too expensive for both your closest relationships and your health. It is therefore all about finding a more comfortable working balance for you between your personal, working and social lives, and not focussing all your energies entirely on only one of these (although they are all important parts of what you are as a whole person).

Unfortunately, the typical LPN 1 person may constantly find themselves involved in a series of clingy and basically unhealthy co-dependent relationships with often also like themselves moody and withdrawn people (often with a partner who themselves has issues with addiction), so my advice would be to take things more slowly, and to be careful what you wish for with your relationships or it just might come true. You may then discover too late that what you imagined will be very different from what it turns out to be.

This does not mean that you should become a social hermit or recluse and fear that every relationship you will have from now on is going to necessarily be a failure such as I have just described, but it would be negligent of me if I did not caution you about this possibility, as well as offering you advice to greatly reduce the chances of this happening.

If I was put on the spot and asked what I feel would be your most effective way of preventing such an unhealthy relationship from happening to you, I would tell you that you will get what you BELIEVE YOU DESERVE.

If you believe deep within yourself that you have every reason to be loved and respected for being the wonderful person whom you obviously already are, then I feel that you will not be attractive to men of this addictive type of personality. If on the other hand you believe that you do not deserve anything better and that you should therefore be grateful to have a relationship with any man who takes pity on you and treats you badly accordingly, then my feelings are that my friendly warning could easily become a self fulfilling prophecy in matters of your heart. To value and respect yourself for being the person who you truly are (and not for being the person whom others appear to want you to be is called SELF LOVE.

This is something that I feel you need to do increasingly over the coming months, and it has nothing at all to do with being vain or filled with so much self pride that you see everyone else as being inferior to you. SELF LOVE is all about SELF EMPOWERMENT, and with greatest respect at the moment SELF ESTEEM is what I see as mainly lacking in your life at present.

To a certain extent at the age of 16 this is hardly surprising (as our teenage years can be so confusing and frustrating for so many of us), so please do not be too hard on yourself if you have not yet made major progress in developing self love. Many senior citizens are still struggling with this problem on a day to day basis, so you still have plenty of time left to you to learn about this from your own life experiences.

Practise self acceptance and self love each day of your life, without taking things to the other extreme (as LPN 1s often tend to do), and developing a superiority complex instead (thinking that you are now too good for anyone else, instead of never good enough). This will then allow you to take maximum advantage of any opportunities for love and romance during the coming six months or so.

God bless,

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