hi

i am needing psychic advice on a situation in my life i am currently married but i am not sure if i love him and i have been talking to another guy on the net and we things are starting to work out good but what im wondering is should i give up my marriage for this new guy????  


thanks

okay on a purely NON psychic level, if you can think about life without the one you are with, then perhaps you may be on to something... I found the one that if I couldn't be with him anymore, no one else will ever do... *sighs* I have a VERY high romantic set of Ideals, but that is my two cents for you....

I have to go and clean my house... *makes a face* but I will try to get back to you in a few hours....

You don't need an Psychic.....you need to collect your own mind....this is way to serious to let any other then YOU make up your mind.

When you live in a marriage....after some time it become more and more a habit...one day follow the other...and if not both parts make any effort to make it exciting it become a "dull routine"

When you then meet this exciting man on the net....you talk well with him...he respond to your "fantasies" everything become exciting life get a new meaning....but do it?

Maybe it is just an illusion....if you haven't seen this man....it might be an 12 years old boy...or a Grand mother with much free time....understand me right...there is no way you can tell how this man is in real life.....as for now you are making fantasies and they are easy to get on the Net....they are well know....and even if some manage to marry true such start...most are disappointed when the real ware is for show and the dull everyday start.

Since you have got such thought in your head...you might as well sit down and think your situation true. Try to figure out if your marriage is worth saving. Try to figure out what you both must do in order to make it function.
If you don't do this...your thought about this will surly destroy your marriage...because you will be more and more discontented with your life....you will have back some excitement in your life.....but by just jumping, without evaluating, you are not solving anything because the new relationship will also go into a habit and again will another be more exciting.

Try to remember back when you fall in love with your husband....try to think what made you both happy...a marriage is a give and take relationship...and none can go true it on a pink cloud....it takes effort and respect.

If your consideration of your marriage show that you will not grow old with your husband....then take the break as fast as possible because then you are fouling your husband.

Good luck.

Well put Rhuto, But I think that instead of looking for a psychic, the real point was advice... seeing as she is the one that has to live with her decision no matter what way that it goes.... the only thing to offer is advice... and you have said, what I was going to come back as say... *smile*

I would like to add, this internet guy, how would it really work?? would you move and give up everything, would he, does he live close to you? Have you considered all the things that you will have to go through? I think that you need to think about this very carefully, this will change your life, and everyone else's... Please remember that.... Have you tried talking to your husband about the things you don't like about your marriage, tried working on it? Just a few more thoughts.

She's schitzo guys. Give her a day. ;)