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Posts: 10 · Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 11:02 pm

I am new to the site and I love it. I am alittle confused on the readings aspect.

I know that there are awsome psychics out there. I think it is rather kind of ya'll to do readings. Just wanted to say thanks.

If anyone had the time. I am pretty confused right now. Things took a major wrong turn in my life and now I am trying to figure out what direction I need to go. What degree? If I should just give up on actually having a healthy, loving relationship and marriate.

Tonya

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 2:48 am

Hello again Tonya,

Am I correct in assuming that this reading request is directly related to the questions you have already asked in the main Psychic forum (and to which I personally responded) concerning your gut feelings about a man you were intending to marry, which only later proved to be in hindsight terribly misleading?

"What about when gut feelings are wrong?"

With due respect to your feelings, you appear to believe that the last two years of knowing this man (or at least you thought you knew him) were a complete waste of time and energy, that would have better been served in finding someone else more suitable for you. While I feel deeply for you as my friend that you had to go through this unhappiness and suffering in order to get to this point in your life, I do feel that there was a very good reason for you having done so, and I do not therefore feel that you have strayed from your life path as much as you seem to think you have.

Without wanting to sound totally insensitive to your womanly feelings, what experiences do not destroy us can frequently make us a much stronger and wiser person as a result of having gone through it. In other words, while I am always saddened to see a relationship break up especially when the two people concerned were not particularly bad people in themselves, I do feel that this admittedly failed relationship was necessary in a way to help you learn a series of important positive lessons, and to better prepare you for making the most of any opportunities for love and romance later.

As I suggested in your other posting, the worst thing I feel that you could now do is to start believing that you are simply not cut out for being able to have a relatively happy long term relationship with any man in future, and that marriage is therefore out of the question. You are beating yourself up for your perceived failure in being able to make your most recent relationship work, when anyone outside of the relationship can easily see that most of the responsibility for it failing lies with him, and NOT you. So here you are continually kicking yourself when you are already down on the canvas for the final count, by not only being unwilling to trust your gut feelings about men in the future, but also by punishing yourself mercilessly for something which was largely beyond your control. This hardly seems either fair to you or logical, but then who ever said that humans behave logically at all times (especially when we fall in love)?

But by destroying what feelings of self respect and self esteem still remain by being effectively your own worst enemy, you are probably achieving the exact opposite of what you intended, which is probably to make yourself feel better. You are unconsciously reinforcing the very thing that you wanted to escape by being too hard upon yourself, and not showing the same warmth and compassion for yourself that you so freely give to others.

On the basis of this intuitive reading I do not believe for one moment that you consciously took such a wrong turn in your life as you appear to think you have, and that you were always going in the direction which was in your best interest. You consequently do not need me to get you back on the proper path for you, as you have never left it in the first place. I do not think that your past relationship was a total waste of time and energy, or that in any way it was a mistake. Put it down instead to experience, and continue to persevere with both faith and courage as your constant companions.

To give up entirely now on ever having a healthy, loving relationship and marriage would I feel be a terrible pity, as if you choose to give up now, the reason for having this experience will be lost and you will be denying yourself of future opportunities for love and romance with another man who respects you as he should (and not behave in the same shabby and disrespectful manner towards you that your ex fiancé did).

Not all men are like he was in the way in which we treat women, so please do not therefore tar all of us with the same brush!!!!!!

Loving regards,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 1 · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 11:53 am

Hi all,

Am new here, in fact just registered. I have seen that a number of so called psychics say that they can connect even via the internet. Now, I will not believe this until I experience this by way of some messages by a psychic.

Does anyone here know or has heard of such a person??

Posts: 10719 · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:22 pm

Nope...I don't think so....and You might arrived at a wrong site....we don't deliver proof here.

We might deliver Readings though.

But a Reading are nothing more then thoughts and suggestions on how to best proceed in life....none of these thoughts comes with guarantee.

The most important person in your life is Yourself.

It is your action that control your life together with actions done by people you interact with...

Since we all have a free will....nothing in life can be put up like 2+2 =4....if so was...we was nothing but Robots.

If you believe in Psychic Readings....evaluate a psychic reading....and try to change your path in the way it suggest....it might lead you to a better life...or a worse....but since you are in control of your own life it must be pretty crazy to move on if you see it lead somewhere you wont go.

So a Reading is in a way a transcript of possibilities....but only you are the ultimate Reader for your Life

Posts: 1580 · Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 12:44 pm

" So a Reading is in a way a transcript of possibilities....but only you are the ultimate Reader for your Life "

Grandpa...I couldn't have said it better! (((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))