Reading request from Eye of Tiger, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 37 · Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 4:00 am

Dear eye of tiger,

Im currently seeing a guy. Would like to know where this is headed. im a female from India.

Regards

jyoti

Posts: 10719 · Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 10:39 am

Sorry if I interrupt this request... but I have some thoughts I want to air.

First pjyoti....if you click on your name to the left...a new box pop up...if you look to the right you will see "Find all post by this member" if you push that link you will find all your post.

You will then see that majority of this request are a reading for your love life....with about 2 months apart.

The way I understand this...is that you are in a "insecure state".....you want your relationship to function...but if you are insecure of yourself it will not.
This might lead to actions or talk that your new partner don't like and he might vanish.
In order to build a lasting relationship we have to be in a positive state of mind and we need to beam security around ourself.

If you yourself feel that I have some right in my thoughts, then I recommend that you use most of your time to build yourself up.
This can be done by meditation...by always having positive thoughts about yourself, without become a big Ego, try to find out your strong sides and develop them.
Your weak sides must be realized accepted and worked on too.
Don't have to great focus to get into relationship...let it develop...let it come natural.

If you do it this way...and manage to create a positive attitude outwards, then I am sure your prince will be attracted to you and that it will last

Good luck to you

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 6:07 am

Dear Pjyoti,

I would like to show my full support for and heartily applaud the wise and timely advice which Rhutobello has offered you in his response.

However I have just received your PM and I therefore have more inside information (which will remain completely confidential between the two of us), upon which to base any reading I choose to give you). Without going into any deeply personal details of your's on this public forum, this relationship is an entirely different one from those mentioned in your previous reading requests. There is no doubt a danger that if you are given too many readings over a relatively short period of time about the same relationship or one specific topic, that you might then become overly dependent on psychic readings and will base your decisions as to whether to go ahead only on what a psychic reader tells or does not tell you.

But this is a completely different type of man from any of those who have gone before, and reading between the lines of your private message, I must admit that I am feeling more positive about him than I have with others in the past. While there is no way to be able to predict with any degree of certainty that this is the man of your dreams, I do see great potential here that you COULD be happier with him over the longer term, as long as you are both able and willing to be entirely honest with each other.

Judge his intentions towards you by what he does, rather than only by what he says. I feel that you have been repeatedly hurt in the past, and that the ability to trust a man again is therefore always going to be a major issue in any relationship you might have in the future. Your trust must be earned slowly but surely, as you will need to earn his. Trust is a two way and gradual process?

The only other piece of friendly advice I will offer you in this intuitive reading is to take your time and first enjoy being in each other's company, before pressuring him into something for which I sense neither of you is yet ready. You may feel that your time for finding some true love in your life is quickly running out, but take it from a late developer (me) who has now been married to his first and only wife for nearly 29 years, forming and keeping relationships is something which should be done with great care and compassion for both yourselves and each other.

In other words, please do not hurry things along prematurely according to your own schedule in more fully getting to know him, and learn first to become each other's good friends, well before you ever consider becoming lovers. If the person you love deeply is also your best friend (second only to yourself), then I believe that you have got it made, and that this will be a match made in heaven.

A reading of this type is believed to refer to a period of the next six months or so, so any further reading about this particular relationship should not be made at least until after early April 2008. I would still of course be pleased to give you a reading about other areas of your life or questions you would like answered (on any other subject) within reason, before then.

Rather than a green traffic light, I am advising sensible caution (amber or yellow light) and taking things slowly but surely with this guy. Do not always try reading his mind, as again humans are not often very good at doing this. If you have any genuine concerns about not be able to trust him, tell him just how you feel. Your feelings of distrust may not have anything to do with him personally, but rather with another man who hurt or seriously let you down in the past? In the same manner, do not take everything he might say too much too heart, as he is as confused as you are about what he wants and expects from his relationship with you.

Your's sincerely,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 37 · Posted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 7:27 am

Dear eot,
Thanks for yr reading. I shall keep your advice in mind while taking this further.

I would also like to thank Rhutobello for his kind advice.

Regards
jyoti