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Posts: 4135 · Posted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 1:46 am

As a third party reading in order to answer your question about your daughter getting a house soon is not permitted on this site, I will focus exclusively on what you have asked with reference to you and your husband's financial situation as I see it over the coming months (until early April 2008).

Just as with so many couples these days whose main breadwinner (?) depends mainly if not entirely upon commission (?), you are presently experiencing serious cash flow problems, with your weekly expenses often greatly exceeding your household weekly income. Even though your husband as an appraiser and yourself have accumulated quite a bit of money to be put away in reserve for a rainy day, it appears that it has been raining now for a long time. Your financial resources and reserves are being stretched to the extreme, and this is understandably worrying you and placing undue pressures upon your marriage.

While money pressures and concerns are one of the two most common reasons for marital conflict and possible breakdown, this does not necessarily have to be the case. Often it happens because the people concerned were simply too proud to reach out for help from others in making new financial plans and arrangements with any outstanding creditors. It is not that they do not want to do whatever they can personally to improve their financial circumstances, but they seem to believe that they must do this without any outside or professional help.

This is especially likely to be the case where one of the couple is already working in a job involving the managing of other people's money. They believe that by being shown not to be able to manage their own financial affairs without outside and/or professional assistance, it must automatically follow that they are themselves professionally incompetent to manage someone else's. This is therefore a time for humility in recognising that bad financial things still happen to the best of people, and that reaching out for help wherever you can find it is not so much a sign of weakness, as it is a sign of maturity, immense inner strength and commitment to your relationship and each other over the longer term.

The main message contained within this reading is therefore that you should not allow this stressful situation to go on too much longer as it is, as doing so could seriously undermine the strength of your marriage. It is important to each of you that you continue to feel as though your partner in it for the long haul, and be willing to each play an active role in resolving the problem in a co-operative manner. Do not play the blame game with each other, and become a major part of the problem instead of it's solution.

Get some help with those never ending bills as soon as possible, from someone who is qualified to offer it. While we as readers can offer you insights to make things a little easier and many of your friends and family members will be well meaning, this is definitely not the time to make rash decisions which could potentially lead to financial disaster. Get some financially sound advice before the problem becomes so great that it might cause your marriage to fail under the extra strain.

Together as a couple you will stand, divided as individuals you or your marriage will almost surely fall! While I cannot predict with any degree of certainty as to exactly how and when your financial circumstances are most likely to improve, I can tell you that you will significantly improve your chances of this happening sooner rather than much later if you not only seek professional assistance, but at the same time continue to do whatever you each can to further strengthen your feelings of love and caring for each other (and each take better care of your own health at the same time).

Love, Light and Healing,

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