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eye_of_tiger
Approved Reader
Age: 59 Zodiac: 
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Location: Adelaide, South Australia
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 Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 11:13 pm |
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Welcome Crounsa, 
It probably sounds a little heartless and obvious of me to remind you that nobody outside of yourself can give you the courage to take the risk of making your approach. You must eventually find the necessary courage from within yourself? This girl has already indicated through her body language that she is just as confused as you are about what she expects of a relationship at her age, but I feel that she is more annoyed with herself than you personally.
I also sense that she is equally lacking in self confidence, as well as becoming increasingly frustrated by her own difficulties in forming new relationships, and she is projecting these feelings onto you (as though they were your's and not hers). This means effectively that she does not feel such an urgent need to learn to deal with her own emotions and her very real fears of being left without a partner for the rest of her life, when you both potentially have so many happy years ahead of you.
If you are asking me if I feel that it is worth persevering with this particular girl, your reading is telling me that it is, although I believe that if you continue to attempt to read her mind (or ask us as readers to do this on your behalf) instead of approaching her in a friendly manner without any pressure whatsoever to take your relationship to the next level, then you could sadly be waiting forever.
The worst thing which I feel could possibly happen is that she may not be willing or available to meet you the first time you ask her, but my impressions on the basis of this intuitive reading are that it is not going to take much effort on your part in order begin to break down her defences, as you are already almost half way there to getting to know her better.
I would however caution you that these defences she has placed around her heart have been put there for a very good reason by herself. In other words I sense that she has had her deepest feelings hurt in the past by another man, and accordingly her relative inability to learn to trust men in general again will always be to a certain degree an issue in any of her close relationships.
As with courage, trust can never be given to anyone by someone else. Trust is more like a fragile flower which needs to be encouraged nurtured on a day to day basis, and progressively grows inside each of us. Trust can never be given. It must slowly but surely be earned, not only through our words, but most of all by our actions. One little trick that may help you to break the ice so to speak with her is to act as though you are confident and brave, when you actually feel anything but.
Being 17 years of age, you may not be familiar with what to you probably first sounds like a terribly corny non cool song. But within these words is a great deal of wisdom, and I sincerely hope that by applying what you have learnt from going over these lyrics in your mind, you will ultimately be able to summon the courage from within yourself to introduce yourself to her first as a friend.
From the film "The King and I" by Richard Rogers and Oscar Hammerstein II
"I Whistle a Happy Tune"
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Make believe you're brave
And the trick will take you far.
You may be as brave
As you make believe you are |
http://www.lyricsondemand.com/soundtracks/k/thekingandilyrics/iwhistleahappytunelyrics.html
Instead of getting up enough courage to make a move, create it for and from within yourself? Feel the fear, but do it anyway!!! 
Wishing you both much happiness ahead,
eye_of_tiger 
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crounsa810
Age: 21 Zodiac: 
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| Posted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 7:57 pm |
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i think your right on most of what you said thank you very much but i will still accept other answers.
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