May I have a reading please? Need help bad, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 5 · Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 2:23 am

Hello everyone

Months ago, I got my first experience with a psychic. She shared a lot with me as she is the friend of my girlfriend. She saw some pictures of myself and my family and began to tell me lots of info about everyone. She was unbelievably accurate and knew things (present and past) there was no way she could have possibly know beforehand. Perhaps only a couple of errors and even those might not be errors. It's tough to say. It made me a believer. Unfortunately, I don't know how to get in contact with her anymore so I started wondering about other psychics and if they could help me. If anyone can help me here or direct me to someone who can help me with psychic readings than please direct me to them.

My girlfriend and I are madly in love with each other. She would do a lot to show your affection. However, it is not your typical (well in some ways it is) relationship. Right now, I'm in a situation where I don't know what to do (don't know what effects anything I will do will have) and I don't know/not sure of my girlfriend's thoughts and what her situation is . I desparately, desparately need to know everything about her situation and what her thoughts are. I'm worried about her.

I would also like to know about something my girlfriend's friend told me. She told me something about my past that shocked me. She told my girlfriend that I was sexually abused 2 or 3 times when I was really young which really shocked me. She wasn't sure who it was (she thought the spirits were trying to protect me and that I will know in the future) but she had an idea and even told me who possibly knew as well as some other things. She was very sure and perhaps even 100% sure of this. I have absolutel no memory of my life before 5 years old so I have no idea on this but it does make complete sense knowing what I know about my life. Does anyone want to confirm or deny this? Do they know any details?

For anyone answering this, the first question is much more important. Thank you so very much.

Posts: 160 · Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 12:15 am

Just take a step back and breath calmly. For just a few minutes look at your situation as if you were an outsider looking in. Hear what your girlfriend tells you with your heart, not your ears. It's more important how people say things than what they say. By the way, I see someone with short blond hair ( I think you) and someone with long brown hair ( your girlfriend ? ) needing to address issues below the surface. You just need to initiate a heart to heart talk with her.
Also, remember not to give your power away to anyone including psychics. You control your destiny and know what's best for you-just look inside yourself.

Feel free to PM me if you need to.

Posts: 5 · Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 4:29 am

jotejete wrote:

Just take a step back and breath calmly. For just a few minutes look at your situation as if you were an outsider looking in. Hear what your girlfriend tells you with your heart, not your ears. It's more important how people say things than what they say. By the way, I see someone with short blond hair ( I think you) and someone with long brown hair ( your girlfriend ? ) needing to address issues below the surface. You just need to initiate a heart to heart talk with her.
Also, remember not to give your power away to anyone including psychics. You control your destiny and know what's best for you-just look inside yourself.

Feel free to PM me if you need to.

Thanks so much for the reply. She actually does have long dark brown hair but I have short brown/almost black hair. I did have blonde hair when I was young though.

I will send you a PM. Thank you so, so much for the reply.

Posts: 160 · Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 4:53 am

I usually get accurate impressions of people's appearance, except when my subconscious is giving me a symbol. I just noticed you are 31 years old, but I saw you as having short, blond hair and very young. What this tells me is somehow you are the young one in the relationship. Not necessarily in age. It could mean your behavior within or towards the relationship ( maybe she controls the direction of the relationship and you go with the flow ).

Hope this helps

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 6:30 am

Welcome NeedHelpBad,

I only wish we were meeting under happier circumstances.

Jotejete wrote:

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Also, remember not to give your power away to anyone including psychics. You control your destiny and know what's best for you-just look inside yourself.

I could not agree any more with these sentiments, than if I had written them myself. The purpose of a psychic reading should always be in my opinion to empower the individual, rather than to make him or her increasingly dependent on getting psychic readings in place of making his own decisions, or worse to immediately without question accept everything which a particular psychic reader says as necessarily being your truth (and not their own).

My own impressions concerning your relationship are identical to Jotejete's although I am mainly being told this, rather than being shown something about the nature of your relationship with this girl in the form of symbols. In a definite manner you are unintentionally handing over control or your personal power to your girlfriend's friend, and are thereby allowing her to be in the driver's seat.

No wonder you feel so anxious even though you and your girlfriend still love each other passionately as you are placing the future of your relationship entirely in her "friend's" hands, by listening to what is with due respect almost certainly total nonsense (her claimed impressions that you were sexually abused when you were young). There are many other potential reasons why you may not remember much about your life before you were 5 years old, and I wonder why it is any of her business anyway, even if you later discovered this was correct (which I seriously doubt it is).

With a friend such as her (even if she truly believes it is in your best interests as a couple to know this), who needs enemies? You are I feel trying to find some sense of meaning from what has already happened in your life so far, and this explanation by your girlfriend's friend seems as good as any others you have come up with so far. Does your girlfriend really believe this as much as her friend seems to have convinced herself is true (and is beginning to win you over to her opinion)?

Even if it does turn out to be true, is her friend professionally qualified to help you or does she regard herself as anything but a reader in training, or does she have her own reasons for wanting to concoct such an unlikely story, such as jealousy to make you believe that she is a more accurate reader than you previously believed she was (merely to impress you). She may have indeed made many predictions which turned out to correct, and her intentions may be entirely honourable, but I feel that by telling your girlfriend this instead of you, she has invaded your right to personal privacy.

Surely It is morally wrong to divulge someone else's personal information obtained during a private reading to another person without their written permission, unless by so doing you are providing valuable evidence to the police and the proper legal authorities which could potentially incriminate the person (and so stop them from harming either themselves or someone else).

Your girlfriend's friend might be a gifted psychic reader in that an above average proportion of what she says may eventually come true, but she has quite a lot to learn about how to handle sensitive personal information she feels she has been given in a reading, and had no right I believe to say this to your girlfriend at all. If she is claiming to be able by psychic means to somehow diagnose that a person was sexually abused without his own knowledge, then she could herself become the target of the police and her local council.

Did she charge a professional fee for coming up with this flash of apparent insight out of the blue, as if it is true it does not appear to have been seriously affecting your relationship with your girlfriend, up until her psychic friend told her this about you?

Hoping this has helped, as to attempt to now read your girlfriend's mind would involve us giving you a third party reading (not allowed on this site), which many of us would also see as a gross invasion this time of your girlfriend's right to her own privacy (just as your's has been invaded by her friend).

Two wrongs (invasions of both your rights to your own privacy) do not make a right?

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