hey pete,

one other thing i am currently doing what ive always wanted to do so i dont understand what you mean by me doing "the correct thing i wanted to do in th first place"? ive never wanted to do anything else other than what i have studied.

and i am already married!

please let me know what you think?

thanks.

Hi Deano
The wife is the soul mate i picked up. your life will always be surrounded by twos. The change of career will happen when you get to your forties when you start another business for yourself. Both trips will have some business attached but one will involve wife and your kids.
Cheers Pete

Thanks Pete.

Hi Grayson and Psychic Chef,

You both mentioned to me about sitting on my bottom for too long and not doing something about it well...... i recieved a phone call two weeks ago which was a recruiter from an agency wanting to know if i wanted to work for a company interested in me, i said yes and got the job.... i finally got up and put the wheel in motion and i am leaving my current lifeless job for a new exciting role with challenging responsibilities.

the hardest thing now for me is to put my resignation in and say goodbye to some people i have become close with over the last three and a bit years.

quick question: by me getting a new job does this change my future or was this what i was suppose to do?

thanks