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Posts: 4 · Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 5:05 pm

Hi
I am new here. And I would a reading! Lots going on in my life.
I recently broke up with my b/f [Found out he was married] and thus I feel I have wasted 1 1/2 yrs on him. I am also awaiting $ from a lawsuit. Long story short a valet parking attendant hit me with my own car! I have had numerous operations on my knee and yet I need another one! My 2nd oper left me in a wheelchair for over 6 mos! This was an extremely humbling experience to say the least. So mainly I want to know of course about the lawsuit but more importantly will I find love or end up spending the rest of my life alone? I am not getting any younger! And if someone picks up on something as far as potentially a mate for me can you give me a time frame?
thanks
Lisa

Posts: 389 · Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 9:11 pm

While you're waiting on your reading... I have had something similar happen in the past, lol. I was dating a guy for 8 months and then he suddenly stopped talking to me. I found out later on he asked his gf for 8 months to marry him.. Not me!! *Sigh.* I kept having dreams... One of them made me realize what was going on just before he went dark on me.

You sound like you need major hugs!

I need to be honest, though. The future's very fluctuating, so any prediction made of the future could change even the slightest. They'll offer advice, however. I'm just telling you what I'm sensing now. From my experience, trying too hard ends up frustrating you, and stressing you out, making you too preoccupied with the thought of being alone, and you end up missing out on what could happen. Giving up altogether isn't even worth it. I personally would just focus on the positive, and what you could do in the meantime to better yourself for whoever may come along, which I'm pretty sure will happen. You usually find someone when you're not looking. I can vouch for that!

I'll be praying about the lawsuit, though. Everyone needs one extra person praying for them!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 1:20 am

Dear Lisa,

I am so sorry to hear that you have recently broken up with your boyfriend of around 18 months, although if he was already married you probably already realised that this was always going to be a possibility. The writing was almost already written on the wall with regards to a relationship which was never I believe meant to be, although I do not feel that it was a complete waste of time as you that little bit wiser now than you were when you started seeing this man, and are therefore far less likely to make the same mistake again.

Your situation with regard to matters of the heart is further complicated by the ongoing law suit, and the incredible mental anxiety it must be causing you. Until these legal matters are somehow well on the way to being resolved and with you just recovering from a failed relationship, I feel that you are presently too emotionally vulnerable to be able to go straight back into a relationship with another man so soon after the previous one. In a definite way you are mourning the loss of what you had dreamed or hoped would be, and I feel that you therefore have more than enough on your plate between the lawsuit and your grief to be able to now make a well balanced and informed decision when the pain in your heart is still so great.

I would prefer not to make any actual predictions as to the most likely course this lawsuit will take, especially if it is related to you divorcing your own husband so that you could have been with your boyfriend instead. I sincerely hope that this will not end with two broken marriages (your own and your boyfriend's), instead of merely one failed affair. There are I feel simply too many unknown factors which could potentially influence the outcome of the court case, to make a prediction with any reasonable degree of certainty.

My first impressions are that there is still a long way to go with this lawsuit, and that nobody is going to get everything they hoped for as a result of the judgement which will be eventually handed down. But until it is almost over, while I see that there will be many opportunities for finding another man to share your dreams with over the coming months, you will not effectively be in a suitable frame of mind to commit both your heart and mind to another relationship for some time yet.

This certainly does not mean that you are forever destined to spend your remaining years entirely alone (there is absolutely nothing in your reading that even mildly hints that this is so), but it probably does mean that your emotional and love life will have to take a lower priority, until at least you feel that you are adequately prepared to take the risk with a man who is not himself in any other relationship at the time. Been there, done that? It is also particularly important that you take special care with your health over the next year or more, as when we are ourselves grieving our body's immune system can also become depressed (leaving us open to any bug which is currently doing the rounds).

Although your reading does not contain any predictions concerning either the outcome of the lawsuit or with regard to you finding romance over the next six months or so, it does point to a much brighter but wiser future for you in a romantic sense. That money you do finally receive from the lawsuit will certainly not go astray. You have quite enough to deal with, without having to also worry that your bills are not getting paid on time?

May your God go with you now and forever,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 4 · Posted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:31 pm

Eye of Tiger
Thank You
You are so correct on so many matters!
My marriage ended back in 2003
and I purposely waited mainly for my daughters sake to begin
dating again.
She is all grown up now and expecting her (my 1st grand baby!)
In Jan.
And yes I wondered about my ex b/f but alas it did come to pass.
And I found out in the most unusual way! lol
I also lost my best friend this yr (May) he committed suicide but I
too wonder about that as well. And yes the hurt there is soooo
deep!
And I have quite a few health probs as well so I will be sure and take
your advice!
Thank You Again!
Lisa

Posts: 4 · Posted: Sat Sep 08, 2007 9:32 pm

And Thank You as well Tyraniel...
Yep I sure could use a HUGE hug!
Thanks!
Lisa