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Posts: 65 · Posted: Tue Aug 28, 2007 6:44 am

my name is elizabeth and my bd is 2/14/1975 - aquarius, and peters bd is 1/25/1970 also aquarius;
I have relocated to Florida and Peter is still back home, everyday he calls me crying and says that he is gonna move out here, but i just dont believe that he'll leave his parents can someone please help and let me know?
Thank You!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Aug 29, 2007 3:02 am

Dear Elizabeth,

Peter himself will forever remain the biggest unknown factor in this equation as I unable to read his mind, and to be perfectly honest with you at this stage I feel that he is himself far from knowing what he will eventually decide to do - whether he will elect to stay indefinitely under his parent's roof or close influence (if he is no longer living in his family home) and thereby risk losing you, or whether instead he will break away from their influence without them cutting him off completely or worse disowning him.

As what I have said suggests, I feel that it is Peter's parent(s) (or perhaps someone who was his once his legal guardian, if his parents are now longer alive) rather than Peter himself who are largely responsible for him feeling as if he is now being forced to decide between you and them (as if he is being torn in both directions at the same time. He is after all already 37 years of age, while you are approximately 5 years younger (which is hardly a significant difference in your ages). You are both definitely past being adolescents who often do not know exactly what they want, or have absolutely no idea as to what they really need.

Your question was:

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I have relocated to Florida and Peter is still back home, everyday he calls me crying and says that he is gonna move out here, but i just dont believe that he'll leave his parents can someone please help and let me know?

The answer which comes out of your reading, remembering that Peter could at any time suddenly reverse any decision he has made up until now and so effectively make this prediction worthless, is that the conflict or power struggle between Peter and his parents (which essentially you have no control over, especially now that you have since moved to Florida) will sadly continue for some time yet. Although I believe that Peter is genuinely upset and that he wants above all to be with you, I do sense that he would not like to be thought of at the same time as being disrespectful towards his parents by leaving them behind to move to Florida.

It has almost come down to a fierce competition for his love and respect between you in one corner, and both his parents in another, whether or not he is still living under their roof. In the end, either Peter will need to convince them that this is the way things were intended to be (to go and live with you but still continue to love his parents) and that he appreciates the good start in life they have given him. Will he eventually assert his right to make a life for himself and come to be with the woman he loves? Most likely, but just how long are you yourself willing to wait in order to find out what he will ultimately decide to do? How long are you willing to conduct what should be an intimate relationship between you by telephone? The answers to these questions are for your eyes only. I have included them here only so that you can attempt to consider them for yourself during your quiet times of meditation.

Hoping this has helped,

Love, Light and Healing to the both of you,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 65 · Posted: Wed Aug 29, 2007 6:32 am

Thank You, your advice is as good as always and it comes at the right timing! You always reconfirm what im thinking. I dont know whats gonna happen yet. I know he does love me and ive told him, his parents made their lives and have did a great job as parents but its been time that he should have started his own life. He is worried that they will disown him and im sure at first they will because they would have lost their little puppet but they will get over it, and he doesnt understand that. I will wait for a little while but not that long because it really makes me sick to see such a smart person that he is and he's just waisting his life away sitting under his adoptive parents wing. Thank you