Hello everyone... First, I would like to thank you so much for your response on my last ad and for the great advises.. I thank you from deep inside my heart. Well some reasone i'm struggling real bad at this time. I don't know why all of these bad things are happening to me and never stop.. When i was in high school i was a little trouble maker so my parents sent me away to Militart school in NY. After graduation from military school i've changed into different person and i've been excepted to go to University of Washington and I was very proud of my self. While i was in military school, whole time I was just waiting to go home to live with my parents and attend college and live happy just like other families.. But when i came back home it was totally different and night mare started.. My parents were divorced and my mom moved to korea and my dad was alcholic and drank everynight. he had bad habit when his was drunk. Everytime he was drunk, which was everyday he started to break things and yelling out loud. He was one of those bad drunks.. Well i couldn't stay home and watch him so i started to hang out with my old friends again and started to sell drugs. Dropped out of school and joined gang and sold drugs for living... When my mom heard that i was doing bad so she decided to move to LA and told me to move down to LA live with her.. So i thought about it and i decided to listen to her, since i knew my life was going down the drain... When i moved to LA to my mom and i tried to fix my life and i was doing very good at first.. I just worked my ass off and never missed work and became rookie of the year from the company and second year became a manager for the company... But deep inside my heart i didn't feel good due to my dad struggling because he let his friend borow all of the money he had even sold the house and gave it to him. My dad's friend promised my dad that for lending him money he will pay my dad the interest every month and he was going to live off of that... it was about $2,000,000 dollars he lent him... Well i don't know what happend but dad's friend didn't pay interst to my dad so he decided to moved to korea to find the guy and tried to get the money back. After 2 years couldn't get no money back and instead they murdered him... But what bothers me alot is my last phone conversation with him. I remember when i talk to him last over the phone ... i remember yelling at him because he called me when he was drunk and i told him not to call me if he is drunk and hung up on him... I feel so guilty and feel so bad ... If i have one more chance it will be different... I went to korea for the funeral and I was so upset that non of the people who borrowed his money didn't show up and only 2 guys came which they said they were my dad's friend but was acting wiered.. Well at the time all my family thought that my dad died of heart attack but some reason after i saw those 2 guys i had a wiered feeling and i knew it wasn't heart attack... So I told my family about my feelings but they said he died of heart attack and can't be murder. Some reason but i knew 100% it wasn't heart attack... So i've requested for autopsy and had to come back to US .. after about 1 month autopsy result came out as HE was poisoned. But no evidence was there so they dismisseed the case... I was so miserable and it was a terrible moment for about 2 years... Somehow i made it through those hard painful days which made me stronger person. I have decided to get back at those f--kers who killed my father. But some reason i turned into an Angel after fathers death... I thought about many things and i decided to forgive them because thinking of it makes me angry and cannot concentrate on other things. Since i'm the man of the family so i had to take my dad's role. So I made a goal which was to start my own business by age of 24.. When i turned 24 I started Pre Paid cellular phone distribution company with this guy name J-- which took my kindness as weakness and used me and abused me.... But at the end, business wasn't doing so good so we had to close down the company and started Solitel with another partner. well but i decided to leave because they were again using me. so i wanted to start business on my own... But I met this guy name S-- K--... which was expert in scam..but i didn't know at the time. he is the one who approached me becuase he wanted to start business in the cellular industry.. So i told him about this charger that i have and i thought it was great product for Hotel business.. So i started to call hotels and luckily hit the deal with HILTON hotel group.... Well but again S-- too took advantage of me and took all of the money so i left the company.. And I started another one with Th--- K-- to sell the charger and he brought fujitsu batter line... which he cheated me again. But i found out there was a HELIO launching so i worked hard trying to get the master dealership and luckily i got the rights.. I have the knowledge but only thing i was missing was the company and fiancial back up.. So i approached my old company Solitel who took advantage of me and did me wrong but i didn't care because i didn't think they will cheat me again since i brought a big deal, which will change there future and I decided to give my partners equal share of the company which i didn't have too but I wanted them to work hard and give there 100% of there effort since its theres company too but intstead they used it to boot me out of the company.. I am the founder and they didn't do jack ###### for the company i had to do everything from hiring and built the company to number one master agent but after i made it to number one they started to boot me out.... they took over all of my duties and started to menaged them and it was getting all messed up. They wouldn't listen to me and started to ignore me and started to put me in the dark... I was vey upset and i visited psychic and she told me that they are so negative and if i don't leave the company than i'll get heart bad by them... So i told them i'm leaving the company but still had my share for the company.. after about 2 monthes out of no where they said our company is doing bad and we need to invest $100,000 dollars each well i told them let me look for some money. but when i came home was talking to my psychic and he asked me to go look at the book because they have stoled many money and was cheating me whole time and asked me to take a look at th e books so i went back to see the book. Some reason they were hiding the books from me and will not show them to me.... But i have all the rights since it my company but still will not show me so i was yelling and he decided to show me altered book... well so i asked for the bank statement and check copies and audited them but it was big mess... they took at least $400,000 dollars to there other company and to them selfs... and they would n't let me take the book for further investgation so i took the book and ran out of the building... i've been kicked by them and pushed around by my employees and it was crazy but maintained to get some of the books... So i went to my attorney and expained the situation and he wrote a letter to them to show me the whole book since i have to rights to do so. well they hired attorney as well and responsed back saying its redicules and they decided to vote me out of the company.... but willing to show me the book.... I'm sure its altered so i requested to my bank for statement and copy of written check...

I know they are very scard sinced they did steal the money and i found out about it.... its a criminal.... to prove them it was forgid... thats where i stand at this time... I know i'll find many things they have cheated and i found out that they were using our company money to pay there solitel employes paycheck and also took all the money for them selves as well... If i dig into it further i'm sure there will be more scandles things they have done.....

Here is the thing I know after i left company it started going down the drain. I know it doesn't worth for me to take the company back so i want to settle with them and i'm sure that is what they want also, since i'll reveal everything about there cheatings... I know for sure we will get audited by IRS by looking at the book and they try hard to blaim me about company doing bad...

Well right now I just want to get the settlement money for my share. Even though i'll win this case 100% but i do now want to go to trial. But in order for me to have leverage i need to proof of many things they have cheated... My attorney and i decided to go into the company to inspect rest of the books, which i know it has been altered. But if they get caught about altering which i will have stronger case and more leverage.

I don't know why people are using me and taking advantage of me... my goal was to make the company happend but there intention was to take my posistion from the start and waited until i made it happend....

I need to think hard here ... I don't know if i want the company back since its all messed up but i want to start again and show them how this business works....

Someone please help me what will happend to me next..?? Will i get the money for my share? or do you think this will go into law suit and trial?

I want to settle and just take my porting which they don't want to give me at all.......

I'm sick and tired of people using me and i will do something about this time for sure... i'm not going down by my self anymore......

Could anyone tell me what will happend to me? will it be a settlement or trial? I'm so broke right now struggling so bad.

Please tell me what will be my out come at the end and when will i start to see some money?

How long will it take to end this mess and gat my money for the share?


i'm so upset about people using my kindness as weakness to take advantage of me...


Please tell me what will happened?

Hello Wireless213,
I am very moved by your story. Though I am not Physic perhaps I can inject my thoughts on your situation.
It is not your fault that your father was an alcoholic. He chose to go down that road. Look deep into your past and ask yourself how was life with father before military school. Was he there for you when you needed a father? I feel that he was drunk for a long time. This could be why you were always in trouble. Dad was drunk and was not there to give you the love and support that children need from their fathers. Thus we act out in a cry for attention. You were getting into trouble because of the neglect. Now you can stop playing the poor me violin as it is worn out. You are the man of the house so grow a backbone and act like it. No more crying about what a miserable life. Life is like a river that flows in one direction. You need to stop swimming up stream and turn around and flow with the current. You have some big decisions to make and you need a clear head to make them. Try some Milk Thistle 200-250 milligram capsule of standardized extract three times daily. Get some Phosphatidylserine (also called PS). Start with 100 milligrams 3 times daily for one month then after you feel your mind is clearer you should be able to reduce this to 1 to 2 times daily. Take a B-Complex Vitamins along with 3000 milligrams of Salmon fish oil.
Now that you have your mind clearing here are the next steps to ponder.
In the situation of your fathers untimely death, you are probably correct to think that the two so called friends acting suspicious know more than they are willing to say. They may not have caused your fathers death, but they know enough that they are not going to say anything. They are afraid they to will meet with the same demise.
If your father had loaned that much money hopefully he had a promissory note with the borrowers. If this is true you should find an attorney in Korea that will take the case for 1/3 of the returns. If no note then you may never get anything.
You may be feeling the release about your father because he is trying to let you know that he is sorry for not being a good father. He is in the spirit world and is proud that you are trying to make something of your self. Feel his presence around you, if he could not be there in life he surly is in death. Remember he is not dead but living in the spirit world. He is with you.

Now, for those crooks that screwed you in business. Screw me once shame on you, screw me twice shame on me. That means you were incorrect to think that if they screwed you the first time they wouldn't do it again and again and again. That is why they asked for another $100k. Now that you have had a cold slap in the face of reality, I think you are on the right track. The legal steps for most court proceedings are first, you hire an attorney to notify them you will take legal action for them screwing you. They hire an attorney to tell you to go jump off. You send another letter telling them you have probable grounds for a favorable out come in court. They will counter and drag their feet and this continues until either party gets tired and says file an action in court. The court will recommend mediation first. You and your attorney sit down in a room with the defendants, their attorney and   a mediator. If the atmosphere is to thick one of the parties will  be moved to another room and the mediator will go back and forth until a compromise can be reached. If you cannot reach that compromise then you can go to court. That will cost $30,000 or more. You have to ask your self, how much money do I have to pay my attorney $200.00 an hour (or more) and how much will I settle for. Your attorney is in the business to make money and that is all. He does not  care if you will win or loose, just as long as you can pay the bill. Since you are broke ask him if he will also take a percentage of the winnings. This might help you if he thinks there is a large sum to gain. Just because you think you should get $400k doesn't mean they will give it to you. They are going to start ridiculously low. Maybe $10,000.00 or less. Don't be surprised this is how it works. This mediation may take all day long or they could cave in and pay you enough to get you to go away. You have to decide how much that is. I would think about what that business should be worth. Review the books and the bank records. Demand those correct books with a court order. They have to supply them in the discoveries that your attorney will submit to the court. Take them to a CPA and have him review them and he can look for any miss allocation's of the funds. You will want to establish all the evidence you can even with the mediation as this is part of the negotiations. Who has the best poker hand. It is all a big game. Remember what you are paying for that attorney and how much you can get back to go start another business.

When you do get a settlement do not sign a non compete clause. That will only stop you from starting your own business. What you do want is a release of all liability and full separation from that company. If they have been running it illegally you do not want any connection. Take your money sever all ties. Go start another business. Then call the IRS and report them. The IRS will have a hay day with them and you will be in the clear.

Next time you want to start a business start a corporation and you keep the controlling shares. That is 51%. Several ways can be negotiated with partners, like they put up the money and you put up the products and/or marketing etc. They can have any part of the returns for loaning you the money. They get 60% of the profits and you get 40% or something like that but you still retain 51% or more of the stocks.   If you cannot run a company then hire a CPA to do the books and make the check require two signatures. That way they cannot take money with out your signature. The CPA won't just give them money without your consent. Another idea would be to get a small business loan through the government. These are available and if you have a good product then you should be able to get some start up money.

After you have completed these steps and the IRS is all over the other guys, you can take all of their accounts. That's what free enterprise is all about.

To much negative energy will only cause you more problems so try and stay focused with the big picture. Deal with these issues and move on. You are young and have a whole lifetime ahead of you so get going.