May i have a reading?, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 19 · Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 1:51 pm

Hi,

I'm Cesare Simone and my birthday is 29/12/1976. Can you tell me about my love life?

Thank you so much

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 3:07 am

Welcome Cesare,

Could you please include in your response whether or not you are currently in a steady relationship with a particular woman?

If so, for about how long have you been meeting (face to face, and not simply by phone or over the internet)?

Thanks in advance,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 19 · Posted: Sat Aug 18, 2007 11:02 am

I don't have any relationship....
... but I really love a girl although she see me only as a good friend

Posts: 19 · Posted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:54 am

Overlooked?

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 3:36 am

Cesare wrote:

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Overlooked?

Absolutely not!

Although I read your response just after you wrote it (thanks for that), the readers on this forum including myself give freely of our own time and energy on your behalf, so please do not feel that we are intentionally ignoring your request if we sometimes need to attend to our own family commitments or health, as well as those of valued members on these MB forums.

Effectively you appear to be saying that you find this girl especially attractive, but that you have not yet approached her in order to find out one way or the other as to what her feelings are towards you. I would not recommend that you should simply come right out and ask her if she loves you in just those words, as she could easily misinterpret this to mean that you are making improper advances. Even though the days of needing to be first formally introduced to each other may be now a thing of the past in your part of the world as it is in mine, while women do like a partner who seems self confident and assertive, most do not like the full on approach and much prefer the man to take his time so that each of you can gradually get to know each other better, without any undue pressure to take your relationship to the next level before you both feel adequately prepared to.

To attempt to read her mind would constitute a third party reading which is not permitted on this site, but maybe it is all the attempts at mind reading which are presently going on, which are themselves the source of your problem? In most if not all close human relationships it is frequently the woman or girl whom has the most to lose, so if you feel awkward about approaching her, imagine how equally awkward she might feel with regard to knowing the best way to react if you were the one to first make a move?

My feelings are that neither of you are going to feel particularly content in merely remaining good friends with each other for very long. Yet I sense that first becoming good friends with each other will be the best possible way to begin. Hopefully by learning to share each other's interests and by honestly talking about how good you feel when she is with you, your relationship will then inevitably develop into something deeper, given both adequate time and compassion for yourselves.

While I do recognise that all of this is much easier said than done and that you will need to conquer many of your self doubts and fears along the way (the greatest of these fears is that she will reject you outright), unless you get started soon on getting to know this girl better, you will probably never know what your chances would have been. You may also by waiting indefinitely for her to be the one to first show a romantic interest in you, be missing valuable opportunities yourself to get to know someone else who would be more than willing to have a loving relationship with you.

There is nothing in your reading that even mildly indicates that she is very likely to reject you, so why not find out whether or not this is so by asking her out for a drink and talking to one another in order to determine whether or not you have any basis for a relationship to develop and deepen? Surely it would be better to find out for certain, rather than possibly living a life full of regret that you did not summon up enough courage to find out directly from the woman herself, instead of depending entirely on vague feelings or your own imagination?

Hoping these insights have been of some comfort and assistance,

Your's truly,

eye_of_tiger