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Posts: 10 · Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 12:27 am

thank you

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 10:10 am

Welcome Stamatia (I prefer to use a person's real name wherever it is provided),

While I cannot offer you a formal Tarot reading on this forum, I often use them as a personal focus tool as part of giving intuitive readings.

Firstly I would like to wish you a rather belated Happy Birthday for your 25th, early last month.

I am truly sorry to hear that you have experienced so much unhappiness within your closest relationships up until now, but I wanted to assure you that this sad situation need not continue indefinitely. In other words while there is no way I can guarantee you that everything will be plain sailing from now on, I do feel that the problem is not so much that you have continually made bad choices when it comes to choosing a partner, but that instead you are quite unintentionally attracting the wrong type of man. One of the worst things I feel you can do now with due respect is to start punishing yourself for mistakes which you never consciously made.

For some reason which I would be pleased to help you discover you are sending out signals to members of the opposite sex that tells them that this sort of behaviour is perfectly acceptable from them and that you believe somewhere deep down in your own mind that you do not deserve anything better. I realise that this sounds like total nonsense to your logical, reasoning mind, but who ever said that humans were always logical, especially within their relationships with others?

Before we can replace the faulty signals you are sending out to men with ones which will attract a completely different sort of person (one who will be both capable of and willing to give you the love you so richly deserve), we first need to somehow determine what you can live with in your man, and equally importantly what you definitely cannot. I always recommend that you should write these down on paper under two columns, as this method forces you to think more carefully about what you would regard as an asset or a liability in your partner. Once you have exhausted all possibilities and cannot think of any more to write, use what you have listed as a guide to the type of place where you would most expect to meet a person with these characteristics. This is I feel the first practical step you can take towards eventually ending much of the confusion you are currently feeling.

Of course as a result of repeatedly having problems in your relationships, your self confidence is fairly low and you are now almost expecting that the next man will be same. By doing this you could be creating a self fulfilling prophecy, but again this is not a reason for needless guilt as we cannot be held responsible for doing something which is presently beyond our control. The message which appears to be coming loud and clear out of your reading is that what at first may appear a terrible loss (the end of yet another unhappy relationship) is in reality not such a major loss at all.

Yes this is sad time for you to mourn the loss of a relationship which would probably never have worked no matter how hard you tried, but it is also a golden opportunity to give you both the freedom to find someone else more compatible. While you continue to look backwards at the past with regret, you cannot at the same time look forwards to a potentially brighter future with someone else.

Your reading also emphasises that while you may have temporarily lost something of material value, hold fast to your own spiritual beliefs and faith as a solid rock to anchor you during the emotional storm. Even though this man is now no longer part of your life, the one person who you will always need to learn to live with is yourself. While there is still life there is also still a degree of hope, and like everything in life this will pass and your heart will eventually heal if you do not continue to re-open old wounds. Yes you are presently feeling disappointed, but if you can only successfully combine the practical advice given above with a refreshing new way of looking at yourself and your relationships as I have just described to the best of my ability, I strongly believe that THINGS CAN ONLY GET MUCH BETTER FOR YOU FROM NOW ON.

Love, Light and Healing (but the greatest gift that life can offer each of us is to be able to give love and to be loved in return, for being the person whom we already are),

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 10 · Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 9:57 pm

Thank you very much for your reading