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lizarred
Age: 37 Zodiac: 
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Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 6:19 am |
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Sorry, Eye of the Tiger, for not responding sooner, I was getting all my stuff together, and thank you so much for time and help.
It is a permanant move, I've been planning this for about 3 1/2 yrs., and me and Peter have been together for almost 2 yrs., but i told him since day one that I would be moving out there. At first I used to ask him to go out there with me but he doesnt want to leave his family because he depends on them too much so after awhile i just stopped.
I love him but i had this planned before him and I just wanted to make sure I wasnt making a mistake and that i will be alright when i get out there!
Please let me know what you think. By the way his name is Peter and his birthdate is 1/25/1970.
Thank you!!!!
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eye_of_tiger
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Posted: Sat Aug 04, 2007 7:06 am |
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I just wanted to make sure I wasnt making a mistake and that i will be alright when i get out there!
Please let me know what you think. |
No I certainly do not feel that you are making a mistake by moving to Florida, but as the move is a permanent one and Peter is presently unwilling to leave his family behind, both you and he are going to need to decide what you both want out of your relationship in future.
Is there any possibility that he would follow you at a later date, as I feel that carrying on a long distance relationship over the internet or by cellphone is hardly going to satisfy either of you for very long?
Unfortunately I cannot directly read his mind or with regard to his intentions towards you over the longer term, but Peter himself will always remain the biggest unknown factor in this equation. When it comes to deciding between you and his family, is he always going to choose them over you?
If the answer to this question is a resounding YES, then this will greatly restrict whatever relationships he may have from now on with you or any other women, unless of course they happen to live within a relatively small distance from his parent's home (and she can guarantee that she will never have to move until both of his parents have passed over).
The ball is now squarely in Peter's court (so to speak). Just what is he willing to do to be with the woman he loves (and who loves him in return)?
Your's sincerely,
EOT
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