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Posts: 1779 · Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 12:17 am

Hi Gem,

Honestly if this is what happened, I for one am glad that you did this. As a moderator you are unfortunately often in a no win situation. If you had not left a shadow topic Vlinder, might have then unjustly accused you of having deleted her request entirely. If however she had specifically wanted a full Tarot reading (which she did not), she would then have been quite angry with you that you had done this. From my viewpoint whatever happened it has provided us with the opportunity of comparing a Tarot and intuitive reading side by side, so in a way I hope that this is not the last time this happens.

As for why more feedback is given in this forum than the Tarot Reading one, I do not feel for one moment that it has anything to do with the level of commitment of those members who choose to read there. Actually I feel that to do a ten card or more spread requires much more study and sheer hard work than doing the type of reading which I do (although I do at times draw a single Tarot card to serve as an intuitive focus).

I wish to therefore state for the records that I have both great admiration and respect for the devoted Tarot readers amongst us (some of whom also read semi-professionally), but it is just not my style of doing this work. I feel that we each have a complementary role to play in being able to better help the member in question by perhaps providing the same information perhaps given from a slightly different perspective.

After all the guiding purpose of giving any type of reading should never be a competition to determine which of two or more readers is the more gifted or accurate, but rather a team effort to provide what insights we feel may be of most benefit to the member whom has requested assistance. I would personally much rather like to believe that my reading had made a positive difference in somebody else's life, than to be regarded as the most gifted and accurate psychic reader on these MB forums.

If I can in addition to this feel that I am a valued member of a team of people working co-operatively together with the common purpose to help someone in the best way we each know how (as happens here on these boards everyday), then I believe that I am doubly or triply blessed and feel proud but humbled to be of service.

My soapbox has now been put away. 'Nuff said?

Namaste,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 1779 · Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 1:41 am

Dear Vlinder,

For the purposes of your intuitive reading on home and health I have totally ignored the contents of the Tarot reading which Mystic Meg has already kindly offered you, and have effectively left it entirely up to you to compare the insights provided by both. I sincerely hope that you will find each of them of some positive value to you, but in a slightly different way.

Your reading tells me that you are currently experiencing a resting or plateau phase with reference to so many different aspects of your home and family life, that it is unfortunately having negative consequences for your own peace of mind and health on several different levels (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual). I see you sitting up in bed sometime during the early morning hours, mentally troubled and exhausted with your face resting in your hands as though you have taken all the troubles of the world to bed with you.

Without wanting to make you feel more guilty than you already may do, much of this anxiety is needless and a product largely of your way of turning your thoughts over and over in your mind in an attempt to find some way in which you could have changed the situation in the past, if you had only known then what you know now. You appear to believe that by analysing whatever happened repeatedly you will then be more able to cope with a similar situation in the future but this assumes that you will be exactly the same type of person indefinitely, which can never be.

Not only is this excessive worry and over analysing counter-productive, but it is only adding to the burden on your sense of inner peace and ultimately this will be reflected in your physical body. While this part of your reading is not saying that your problems are any less real or that they all exist only in your mind, you really do not need this added load of concerns at this stage of your life.

The second part of your reading emphasises that you are presently of two very different minds when it comes to making any particular decision at the moment. After having so recently convinced yourself that you are making the best possible decision for you with the information which was available to you at the time, suddenly the complete opposite course of action becomes equally or even more attractive than the one which you just settled on.

I feel that your emotional life is currently a matter of extremes, with very little room for anything in between. Your moods are chopping and changing in mid stream between feeling that life is getting on top of you to feeling at least for a fleeting moment that you are beginning to make significant progress in overcoming your many personal challenges.

Sadly this feeling of confidence in yourself and your abilities to cope with whatever the future holds in store for you is only very temporary and may disappear over a period of seconds, rather than it being hours or days. Your feelings of self respect and self worth are equally transient.

The third and final part of your reading seems involved with you being faced with making a decision from several available alternatives or options, none of them being anything like what you would regard as the ideal solution for your current circumstances. In other words your problem as I see it is not so much that you do not have any choices to select from, but that instead you are feeling constantly overwhelmed and effectively powerless, because of the sheer variety of equally attractive choices which you are being presented with. You simply cannot make up your mind.

This applies not only to decisions which need to be made on a personal and relationship level, but even extends to your spiritual beliefs. At times you seem entirely sure of yourself that you have adopted a set of such beliefs that are both useful and relevant to you in better understanding your overall purpose in being here, but at others you may wonder if you are only deceiving yourself into believing that you are making major inroads towards better understanding your unique place in the world.

It is a feeling as though you are losing control, or are unintentionally giving your choices power over you, rather than it being the other way around. There is a warning here however that not everything is as it appears to be on the surface (there is nothing surprising or new about that?). Making a hurried decision now could have just as many negative consequences as not making any at all (perhaps even more). While this part of your reading is not saying that you should not first examine each of your options in detail (as this would be most unwise), not deciding at all is still a decision.

By doing so you could be unconsciously giving over your personal power to somebody else who will then make the decision in your place, but in their own best interests and not your own. Instead of continuing to sit upon the fence indefinitely in the vain hope that the problem will resolve itself without any further action on your part, or alternately rushing in where angels fear to tread, make your decision based on the information you have available to you at the time, then be equally prepared to deal with the consequences of your decision knowing that you did your very best. No God who deserves your love and respect would ever expect any more of you than this, so why do you?

In summary, while your reading may first appear a negative one overall, it contains the seeds of your inevitable victory over anxiety and your tendency to expect much more of yourself than any other reasonable person would. You seem to have such high moral standards and expectations of your ability to cope entirely independently of others, that you are quite unintentionally setting yourself up for failure by being so hard on yourself.

The reading is strongly encouraging you to find a more comfortable working balance for you between the extremes of anything in your life (which will be different for different people), and to above all show at least as much compassion for yourself as the fallible human being you are, than you frequently show so generously towards others. It is high time that you became more of your own best friend, rather than often being your most severe critic?

May good health and happiness follow you throughout your entire lifetime, and may you come to better recognise your divine intrinsic worth as a child of God (as we all are),

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 207 · Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 3:34 pm

Hello everyone

Sorry to have caused a stir lol, I hope all your fingers are recovering from all that typing I caused? But it has made for a very good discussion.

Thank-you for the very valuable feedback Vlinder, it is really much appreciated. I think I sometimes let myself down by trying to keep my readings short, when so much information is coming in it can be hard to get it all written down and to keep the main points clear. But I am confident that you have the courage of your convictions

It is very interesting to read your reading too Eye of the tiger, and I must also say a thank-you for being so gracious in your welcome and kind words, that goes to Flight of angelwings and Gem too

Meg

Posts: 88 · Posted: Wed Aug 01, 2007 8:22 pm

Thank you all for your kind support in this, as far as I'm concerned there's no problem here, like Eye Of The Tiger said I certainly would never play one person off against the other. I could take quite a bit from Meg's reading and am looking forward to E.O.T.T.'s reading to which I'll give my honest feed-back.
love & light
Vlinder

Posts: 1779 · Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2007 8:05 am

To you all,

I always enjoy working towards a WIN - WIN - WIN situation wherever this is possible, and I believe that this thread has been one of these for each of us.

Vlinder has now received two very different types of readings for the price of one (still completely free).

Meg and I have been able to compare our readings side by side, and hopefully the exercise has been as interesting and of as much benefit to her, as it has been to me.

But I think that the biggest winner of all has been this MB Psychic Reading forum, with regard to the feelings of good will and working as a united team in order to help others that this exercise has created (including our board moderators whose constant efforts on our behalf are always much appreciated).

To my good friend Vlinder,

Your period of waiting for my reading is already over.

Please look three postings above this one for the reading I gave you yesterday (Wednesday August 1st).

Great work everyone,

eye_of_tiger