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Posts: 12 · Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 2:18 am

Hi, I have been plagued lately with a crappy love life and health problems. Can anyone give me insight as to whether or not I will be in a relationship soon, and what they will detect in regards to my health?

Thank you so much... both topics have been causing me MUCH strife! By the way, my name is Heather and my birthdate is 5/19/84

Posts: 1779 · Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 5:14 am

Welcome Heather,

With due respect, while I have some understanding of how frustrating and disappointing it must be for you to have such a "crappy love life" (your words and not mine), when it comes to knowing how ongoing health problems can all too easily turn the normally rich spectrum of colours of life into varying shades of grey, I feel that I am much better qualified to comment on the basis of personal experience, rather than learning what it is like from books. It has often been said that if we do not have our health, nothing else really seems to matter. But that does not mean that people with ongoing or chronic health problems have chosen to spend a good part of their lives not talking or caring about anything or anyone else .

Without wanting to be seen as complaining (as there are I believe many chronically ill people amongst the members of this site), illness does tend to get your attention as an unwilling member of it's captive audience. But at the same time it also allows you the opportunity to re-examine and to get your life priorities back more into order. It gives you a lot more time than most people who do not know what it is like to be ill from one day to the next to sort out what or who is most important in your life, and what can be regarded as a storm in a teacup (and therefore of little real consequence).

Although as psychic readers we are not permitted by law to either diagnose or make actual predictions concerning your health problems (these should only be done by a qualified medical practitioner), my feelings on the basis of this intuitive reading are that while your physical symptoms continue to be very real, they are being supported and made much worse than they would otherwise have been if you were not stressing yourself out so much in order to get back to your work or studies, as soon as is humanly possible.

While every day spent being ill is costing both your employer and yourself money, returning to work prematurely could potentially make what was not previously a serious chronic problem into one. Instead as seeing your health problems as an enemy to be avoided, try to see them instead as a teacher and friend who has an important message addressed to you about the absolute necessity of taking better care of yourself in future. I do not know what your exact symptoms are, but they often provide us symbolically with subtle hints about the emotional, mental or spiritual problems which have ultimately given rise to the physical illness.

Some New Age writers take such matters a little too far in my opinion (although their intentions are often well meaning) and have been known to make sweeping and possibly dangerous generalisations about what a particular physical symptom may indicate about the person who is experiencing it. Pain in the area of the heart could I suppose mean that your heart has been broken or that you are unable to fully express your feelings of love, but it could equally indicate that a major heart attack is imminent. This requires immediate emergency intervention by a cardiac surgeon, instead of us simply doing some inner work to remove possible emotional blockages.

So what I am attempting to say is that along with many of the more progressive members of the medical and complementary healing professions these days (neither of which I am), instead of trying to apply temporary band aid measures to treat your symptoms so that you might get your health back sooner rather than later, you need to look much more deeply into what of your needs are not currently being met on one of many different levels.

You will need to begin to look at yourself (again) as a whole person (holistically), rather than as a collection of particular symptoms that need to be fixed? I sense from your reading that you are presently and will continue to be given several opportunities to examine and think more deeply about exactly what of your needs are being neglected over the coming months.

I also believe that as long as you at the same time continue to do what common sense and your doctor tells you is necessary to regain your health, that your health will significantly improve in direct proportion to how well or effectively you can now get those formerly neglected needs of your's met. I am not consequently making any predictions that you will regain 100% of your former health by a given day and time, but I would be rather surprised if by reducing the levels of stress in your life and by examining your personal needs in greater detail you did NOT make major progress towards overcoming any of your lingering health problems.

Good health and life's many other blessings are now being sent in your direction,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 12 · Posted: Fri Jul 27, 2007 5:56 pm

I do not wish to sound as though I take my health for granted or naive in a sense. I am a RN in an Emergency Dept at a major NYC area based hospital, so I indeed know what it is like for people to suffer physically.. as well emotionally. Can you please give me insight as to my relationship problems, so I can help alleviate the stress in my physical and emotional life. This seems to be the trigger..

Posts: 1779 · Posted: Sat Jul 28, 2007 12:27 am

Dear Heather,

As we are only able to adequately answer one question per reading, when there are several it is left up to the reader's source to determine which it is most important for you to know about at this time. Your health came up as the most significant issue, and I cannot change this without giving you an entirely new reading.

In your case there was no suggestion whatsoever that you neglected your own health or were naive about caring for yourself adequately, but as an RN in the emergency department of a major NYC area based hospital, you are both highly stressed out by the nature of your job and would naturally have very little time and energy over in reserve for having a relationship.

In a definite manner therefore, while I understand how stressful it must be for you to not be in a steady relationship and that this is most distressing to a person of your caring nature, I see trying to bring down your stress levels in any way you can while still being able to carry out your many professional duties (and keep your job as well) would not only help you to do your job more effectively while enjoying better health, but it would without doubt have a significant positive impact on your relationships with other people and especially your love life.

What insights I offered you were therefore indirectly related to getting you to the point that you felt you were more able to go out and mix with the type of men you are looking for on a regular basis, and would above all feel much more self confident in doing so.

I am not in any way minimising how stressful it must be for a woman with such a loving and compassionate nature as yourself not to be loved by a man who is both able and willing to give you the love you so richly deserve, but I was attempting to get to the root of your problem as I see it.

As I am certain that you are making every reasonable effort otherwise to have an active social life (under what must be very adverse circumstances) and did not wish to bore you by stating the obvious ways to greatly increase your chances of finding a suitable partner, I went straight to what I believe is the cause, rather than merely dealing with one of it's many symptoms.

I will now leave this for any other reader who feels drawn to respond to your request as is your choice to do so, but I suspect that since we are all drawing our information from the same common source, there is a very good chance that you would be told much the same thing as I have, perhaps in slightly different words.

God bless,

eye_of_tiger