I live in the Dallas area, and following are a couple resources that can be of help. A move out of state may not be possible right now, but removing yourself from an abusive situation immediately is.
Women's Center 817-927-2737
www.womencenter.info
Genesis Woman's Shelter 24 Hour Hotline (214) 946-HELP
http://www.genesisshelter.org/services.php
The Family Place 4211 Cedar Springs Suite 100 Dallas TX 75219 Business #: 214-559-2170 Hotline/Crisis: 214-941-1991
The Salvation Army - Family Violence Program 5302 Harry Hines Dallas TX 75235 Business #: 214-688-4494 Hotline/Crisis: 214-688-4494
Perhaps if you take the first steps to protect yourself with-in the confines of your current situation, your PO and the judge will view your request in a different light.
If I can be of more help, feel free to PM me.
Blessings,
Kahulawe