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Posts: 15 · Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2007 3:37 pm

Hi to anyone who would like to read for me!
I would like it if me and my husband should make a move and get are own trucking leasing job?
And if we should get a house or a car?
my birth day 8-30-72
his is 12-3-76 my name is Cody and his is Doug.
Thank you

Posts: 1779 · Posted: Sun Jul 22, 2007 2:49 am

Hi Cody,

The dates of birth you have so kindly provided show that you have a Life Path number of 3 while your husband Doug has the Master number of 11. Honestly you would never have thought two such extremely different types of personalities were possible within the same relationship, unless it had been planned that way. This does not however mean that the partnership is doomed to failure, but it probably does mean that there will be constant conflicts of opinion between the two of you as to where your combined spendings can most effectively be spent.

Your reading tells me that you are more a happy go lucky let us see what today has to bring person, while Doug is to put it more politely very intense and frequently changes his mind even after you may had though the decision had already been made, because of his manner of analysing everything in extreme detail in order to be as certain as he possibly can that your investments are 100% secure. Of course while this is an admirable personal quality in protecting you from financial disaster, 100% guaranteed security in anything must remain an ideal which is rarely if ever reached.

Because you are almost each at the opposite end of the personality spectrum when it comes to making such important financially risky decisions such as getting your own trucking or leasing job or buying a house and a car, I feel that I am being placed in the unenviable position of becoming your referee or of being the person who has final say in this highly personal matter between you. Whether I say YES or NO to each of your questions, I am almost guaranteed to be seen as taking sides against the other person.

As your Life Path number shows that you are not only highly creative and possess excellent communication skills, I strongly believe that as a person who is completely outside of your relationship with Doug (and who therefore will not bear the consequences of any of the decisions I may make on your behalf), I have no right to do this.

While I am sincerely sorry that that you will be disappointed to hear that I am unwilling to adjudicate with regard to financial decisions which are not my business, I do still feel that these present you with valuable opportunities to use the personal qualities with which your LPN indicates you entered this current lifetime. I feel that since both Doug and yourself are going to be the only two people who will need to live with the consequences of the decisions you will make as a couple about the trucking leasing job as well as major purchases such as these, you will need to learn to communicate more effectively with him and above all be willing to compromise and take the more middle road between your own two extremes.

In other words, you will need to convince Doug that you have thought much more deeply before reaching each of these decisions than you would have in the past (as is his nature), while at the same time trying to get him to be a little more relaxed and much less intense about taking some calculated risks (which is completely different from doing something silly or dangerous).

Let us face it: life involves making an almost endless series of decisions on a daily basis, and if you are going to wait until you have a 100% guarantee of anything, you may never live long enough to see it happen. With special reference to these major financial decisions, learn to work co-operatively together while allowing for each other's strengths and weaknesses to maximise your chances of making a good business decision, without expecting a 100% iron clad guarantee with regard to anything.

Somewhere in between Doug's own fruitless search for the mythical absolutely risk free financial decision, and your own approach of simply deciding then picking up any pieces later, is the best strategy I can suggest to be used in making the decisions which you have listed above. Effectively, it is now entirely up to you to both decide whether you wish to be constantly at each other's throats whenever a decision needs to be made fairly quickly, or whether instead you are going to learn to compromise and begin working as a team (and not simply as two individuals who happen to be currently living under the same roof). United you will both continue to stand strongly together, divided you will both fail and fall (and so will ultimately any remaining good feelings between you disappear)?

May your God go with you always,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 15 · Posted: Mon Jul 23, 2007 11:42 pm

thanks very much! thanks.