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Posts: 42 · Posted: Thu Jul 12, 2007 5:15 pm

maybe I made a mistake mentioning specific readers. I mentioned flightofangelwings and libby since I have seen very informative and loving readings from both and felt a connection there. However any person here who would like to read for me is very appreciated.

I am interested in hearing any guidance given, but if you'd like me to ask for something specific, I could use a lot of guidance in the area of my in-laws (brothers/sister-in-law/mom), or in being able to connect with my husband, or to know who or what (in spirit form) is around me, or in my financial situation, where I seem to be a bit stuck. my dob is 12 11 80.

If anyone has any guidance for me, please share.
I'm interested in hearing any input anyone would like to give.
Thank you all.

Evangeline

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 4:10 am

Dear Evangeline,

I wanted to first assure you that I was not in any way put off or offended by you requesting specific readers (there is no actual rule I know which says this is not allowed). All of the people you mentioned are exceptionally gifted at what they do on behalf of other members, and I believe are also amongst the very nicest type people whom you could ever hope to meet.

I therefore feel particularly privileged to be regarded as a valued member of the reading team on these MB forums, as well as their friend. There is no place for "I" or ego in the word READER? This being said I am not a trained medium myself, and would therefore prefer to pass on your questions about connecting with your husband in Spirit to someone whom I feel is better qualified to respond to this. But your finances and your relationships with your in laws are an entirely different matter, and I would be pleased to offer you a psychic reading concerning one of these two areas.

And now on to your reading.

Of these two major life areas, it appears that the focus of this reading will be more with reference to the nature of your ongoing relationship with your in laws. Would it be proper of me to say that the your relationship with your in laws has become increasingly strained and emotionally cold recently, mainly due to major difference of opinion between yourself and other family members about what is in reality a highly personal decision that only you can and should make?

I sense from your reading that another most likely male family member is responsible for attempting to interfere in personal and/or business matters which are actually none of his business. Because he believes deep down that you are wrong and he is right, then he is pushing or forcing his opinions and beliefs upon you, and you are currently feeling understandably angry and as a result overly defensive about this.

What appears to make things even worse is that in the past you have often agreed at least in principle on many points of order, and your feeling as though you are now constantly under attack by someone who was previously thought of as a trusted friend is only making what is happening now much less bearable. Does this present escalating friction and conflict with your in laws relate in any way to something that happened either during the months leading up to your husband's passing, or immediately after the event? I get a strong feeling with you that this has something to do with you now wanting to move on with your own life with another man.

On the basis of this reading, if the differences of opinion between you are concerned with what is and is not thought to be respectful behaviour by you towards your late husband, I personally feel that you have your husband's blessing as he still loves you so much and would never wish you to live out your remaining years in relative financial hardship and completely alone. In other words, I sense that your late husband is entirely on your side and is in total agreement with whatever decisions you have been forced to take according to your current financial and personal circumstances (possibly including those related to you finding another life partner).

Although he knows that you will never stop loving him, and that he will in return never stop loving you, why should your own long term security and happiness be sacrificed indefinitely for the benefit of what of your decisions your in law might interpret as being disrespectful of or perhaps of dishonouring your dear husband's memory. I do not however feel that your relative is doing this on purpose, with other than the best of intentions, but rather that his methods of showing due respect to your husband are somewhat I believe misguided.

I would not wish to now make your relationship with this family member even more strained than it is presently by advising you to become entangled in a slinging match which could potentially end up in court, but I do feel that you will have to be more assertive with this person, without being at the same time overly aggressive. You need to draw a line in the sand as to what you will accept or not accept from this person concerning matters which should remain confidential between you and your husband now in Spirit?

In a definite manner you are now the sole legal representative on Earth (as a result of your marriage to him) of your late husband's interests and financial affairs. According to the law of your country, you alone have the right to decide (hopefully your husband left a valid will) what should be or not be done with reference to what are are now only your decisions to make. Be increasingly assertive with your in laws, but at the same time be as tactful and diplomatic as possible in the way in which you approach these sensitive matters with them.

Hoping sincerely that this reading has been of some help and comfort to you,

eye_of_tiger

PS: Whoops! I failed to mention within the main body of your reading that you may have already been aware of your husband's spiritual presence with you on several different occasions.

I have subsequently been asked to confirm for you that it was indeed your husband close to you at these times.

Posts: 42 · Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2007 6:38 pm

eye of tiger! Thank you very much for taking the time to read for me!

I will wait for other readings and then give feedback.

Posts: 3405 · Posted: Mon Jul 16, 2007 11:49 am

evangeline wrote:

Re: anyone else, before i give feedback?

maybe I made a mistake mentioning specific readers. I mentioned flightofangelwings and libby since I have seen very informative and loving readings from both and felt a connection there. However any person here who would like to read for me is very appreciated.

I am interested in hearing any guidance given, but if you'd like me to ask for something specific, I could use a lot of guidance in the area of my in-laws (brothers/sister-in-law/mom), or in being able to connect with my husband, or to know who or what (in spirit form) is around me, or in my financial situation, where I seem to be a bit stuck. my dob is 12 11 80.

If anyone has any guidance for me, please share.
I'm interested in hearing any input anyone would like to give.
Thank you all.

Evangeline

evangeline wrote:

eye of tiger! Thank you very much for taking the time to read for me!

I will wait for other readings and then give feedback.

Hi,

It is very confusing for everyone if people go back and edit their post like this. Also it might actually be taken as bad manners to ask for more readings when you have just received one, or to ask for multiple readings in this way. Readers will feel much more inclined to offer their valuable time if they feel that you will benefit and appreciate their reading and also freely give feedback which EOT so obviously deserves for giving his time and energy.

Posts: 42 · Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 7:44 am

Gem wrote:

Hi,

It is very confusing for everyone if people go back and edit their post like this. Also it might actually be taken as bad manners to ask for more readings when you have just received one, or to ask for multiple readings in this way. Readers will feel much more inclined to offer their valuable time if they feel that you will benefit and appreciate their reading and also freely give feedback which EOT so obviously deserves for giving his time and energy.

Thank you for your thoughts...

I've left the door open for others who may want to read for me, and would like to not give away certain information until I am sure no one else has anything to say.

Being open to more than one person to share does not in any way change the value of anyone else's thoughts or in any way change my appreciation of it. If it has caused Eye of Tiger to feel unappreciated, I am very sorry. If so, I would hope that Eye of Tiger would honestly say so. It should be made absolutely clear that wasn't my intention.

It is important to be open if anyone else has felt compelled to share anything. Everyone has different opinions and expectations, so you can't please everyone all the time, though I do aim to please. Everyone here is free to either respond or not, as they like. If someone dislikes the idea, they are free to decide not to share with me, now or in the future, however I am very appreciative and grateful for the love of anyone who shares with me their valuable time and energy.

I do hope I haven't offended Eye of Tiger, who has already posted. I do (as I already wrote) very much appreciate his time and effort, and will, as I said, post feedback.