looking for some guidance and a reading after an abrupt ending to a relationship, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 7 · Posted: Mon Jul 09, 2007 11:44 pm

hello everyone...thanks for taking the time to read my post1

i had posted a while back about a guy that i had been seeing again (he was an ex). well, he recently was very disrespectful and ended things very poorly. it was very hurtful and i have gone through a lot with him and did not expect this. things were very complicated with him and we had a long history.

anyway, i feel as though it is time to move on at this point. is there any chance that i will be meeting someone new soon or that things will take a more positive step forward? it has been a very tough few months.

thanks for your help and input!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 2:17 am

Could I please begin this by quoting what my good friend Rosemary told you in your previous reading? I wish to say here that I completely agree with and support everything which Rosemary has written, and what has happened recently only I feel confirms her impressions, now with the luxury of hindsight.

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He's a nice guy but it didn't work out before......

And the end of her sentence could very well have been ...so why would you expect it to work out any differently or for the better this time?

And the answer I feel is that although your ex has his faults and you have a long history between you that you still hold on in your heart to the hope that one day he will see the error of his ways and finally realise just how much you care for him. Would it also be true to stay that you still have a great affection for your ex, in spite of some of the insensitive and to be honest hurtful things he has done?

You sort of want to hang on to this guy but I wonder if its worth seeing who else is out there?

I feel that Rosemary was telling you then in a very tactful manner in order not to deny your right of free will to decide for yourself with whom you wish to be in a relationship. In other words she was saying that while you should not completely rule out the possibility that your ex will suddenly come around to your way of thinking, do not depend upon this reasonably unlikely possibility indefinitely.

Perhaps it is therefore time for you to call it a day with regard to your ex, even though you will probably never forget the better times you had with each other, and neither I believe should you.

And now on to my reading!

Your question was:

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Is there any chance that i will be meeting someone new soon or that things will take a more positive step forward?

I strongly empathise with your situation and specifically as to how deeply your feelings have been hurt over and over again and you are yet again left believing that you have somehow failed to help your ex. The important point here is that you cannot hope to be able to help another person until they are willing to admit that there are problems between you and are prepared to commit themselves to changing things for the better with you by their side to give them whatever encouragement and support you are able to. Most of the change must come from within your ex, and my reading only confirms what Rosemary was telling you then, but in a nicer, gentler way with the purpose of trying to cushion the blow for you.

Your reading emphasises that you are effectively carrying around not only your own problems on your young shoulders, but your ex's as well. I believe that enough is enough and that only by putting aside what does not belong to you, will you then be able to fully give your heart to and trust in another man. Heavy emotional baggage? There is little doubt on the basis of your reading that the relationship you once had with your ex is now in the completion phase, and you are preparing to move on to something much better. As a result of your still deep affections for him, you have almost completely exhausted your own vital energies. The main reason why you might be currently feeling a lack of any motivation to move on has absolutely nothing to do with logic, as you are both an intelligent and caring person (sometimes to such an extreme that you ignore your own equally important needs in order to help others).

Your present situation and feelings have much more to do with your urgent need to recharge your spiritual batteries and to regain some of your former self confidence. You are consequently in a resting phase or are on a plateau when it comes to entering upon another intimate relationship in the short term. Although I do see some potential for you finding a new romance over the next six months, and certainly would never advise you to turn down any such opportunity, I would suggest that you should not try to push things along too fast, according to your own schedule. There is still I believe considerable inner healing work to be done, so enjoy yourself, but do not expect too much of yourself, especially at this relatively early stage of your next relationship.

Perhaps the best advice I feel I can offer you is for you to remain as positive as you are able to that the man of your dreams is still waiting somewhere out there, and that things will soon definitely be on the up and up for you romantically. At least in the short term you will need to recognise your emotional limitations as a result of this ongoing resting and self healing phase. Be positive, but also be at the same time both realistic and practical in your approach to your love life?

Wishing you good health, love and happiness,

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