Unexplained Anger, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 4:40 am

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You people have got me thinking..I feel now that that my anger is probably because I feel trapped, I want to do one thing, but am totally tied up in doing another..

Can either or both of you do a reading? Can you tell me if this is how it is meant to be, or will I go the way I want to?

And now your reading as promised:

My feelings from your reading are that the anger you are currently experiencing is not so much related to your feelings of being trapped within your situation (although it must be seen as one of many possible factors), but has much more to do with your inner belief that your current circumstances are entirely your fault and you must therefore continue to beat up on yourself in an attempt to get rid of much of the unnecessary guilt you are feeling for not having foreseen every possible outcome and for not having done something about it which might have potentially prevented it from happening at all.

You are therefore punishing yourself for not being smart enough to predict your future with 100% accuracy and I think that your anger is a product of your disappointment in yourself that you did not see this coming. It is above all a feeling of powerlessness or a lack of control over every possible factor which could determine your future. In other words you are punishing yourself for not being God!

This is a common trap fallen into by people who adopt the New Age belief that goes something like this - WE ARE THE CREATORS OF OUR OWN REALITY - WE ARE GOD!!!!

While I do believe that to varying extents we are responsible as masters of our own destiny to create a future for ourselves by the decisions we make in the present moment (our only true point of power) and also that a spark of our Creator exists within each of us, I feel that this idea that EVERYTHING SHOULD BE COMPLETELY UNDER OUR CONTROL and that therefore WE ARE OURSELVES PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE IF OUR LIVES DO NOT ALWAYS TURN OUT AS WE EXPECTED THEM TO is not only a false belief, but that it also causes much unnecessary guilt and anger that must eventually go somewhere.

Life is often what happens to us while we are making our own plans, and while there are I believe some events in our life that are set in stone, a very large proportion of them are not.

You asked "Can you tell me if this is how it is meant to be?"

If you are asking by this whether you were intended to feel angry to the point that you have no choice, other than to turn it upon the people you love or who are closest to you, then my answer would probably be NO.

You also asked "Will I go the way I want to?"

My answer to this would have to be YES, but only up to a point. Your life will continue to unfold whatever you decide to do or not to do. Some things will probably turn out much as you hoped or expected they would. Some things will only turn out partially as you expected. MOST things in your life will turn out completely differently from what you might have hoped they would.

But this does not mean that because you have not been given a 100% guarantee that life will always go precisely the way you wanted it to that you cannot therefore still enjoy a relatively happy life in spite of life's unpredictability. The hard fact of life is that most of it is a matter of trial and error. Human beings frequently learn much more about themselves through the errors they make than they do from their victories or successes. If you do not give yourself the permission to make mistakes on a fairly regular basis (to be fallibly human), then how are you ever going to learn anything of any real value?

You currently find yourself in a particularly uncomfortable situation in dealing with your own anger. If you turn it inwards it will probably lead to you becoming more depressed as time moves on. If you on the other hand turn it outwards upon your friends and family then potentially you could be cutting your own life line or depriving yourself of their much needed encouragement and support.

On the basis of this reading, I believe that either alternative is no longer acceptable, which is why I advised you to consult a counsellor or perhaps another person concerning this. This type of emotional inner help cannot be easily given to you through a reading, although spiritual healing can help in this regard. Instead of deciding what to do with your anger, I feel that your counsellor or psychologist needs to help you to see that anger is only one of many possible ways of reacting to what is happening in your life.

If you can find another more socially acceptable way of more fully coming to terms with your own feelings that you have somehow failed in life in general, then the anger you are experiencing now will gradually fade away until it is only a vague memory. If the anger is no longer there (or it is at least greatly reduced), then you also will no longer need to decide as to whether you are going to turn it inwards upon yourself, or whether instead you will unleash it upon your poor unsuspecting relatives. You can to a varying degree have your life unfold as you would like it to, and at the same time learn to increasingly control your feelings of anger to the point that they are no longer able to cause further pain and trouble between other family members and yourself?

Love, Light and Healing,

eye_of_tiger

can if given adequate time, some professional help and some well deserved compassion for yourself gradually turn into

Posts: 46 · Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 6:39 am

Thanks a ton EOT..

You are spot on about one thing..I do feel resentment towards life itself, its like I have'nt got my share as I wanted it. And I sulk..

It is strange, a part of me is very aware of the fact that the universe does not work according to my plans, but I need to learn the art of flowing with the moment..

I will definately consider your suggestion about seeing a professional.

I am trying to set up a business at the moment. Can you see it working out..? If you think it will not you must tell me, I will try nevertheless, but your reading might help me save some money.

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 7:36 am

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I am trying to set up a business at the moment. Can you see it working out..? If you think it will not you must tell me, I will try nevertheless, but your reading might help me save some money.

There was absolutely nothing in your reading (which is now complete) which even suggests that any attempts to establish your own business would be a waste of your precious time or money.

Indeed I would be totally unwilling to accept the responsibility of you making such an important life decision purely on the basis of one of my readings. A psychic reading is designed to provide you with insights into your own personality which will assist you in better dealing with whatever comes along.

Above all the purpose of my readings is to inspire and encourage you to follow your dreams, and certainly not to discourage you from even trying.

To be perfectly honest I rarely if ever make predictions because that suggests to many people that their future is predestined, and therefore nothing to do is going to change it. While I do believe that certain events will happen no matter what, most of them are the direct consequence of decisions we have made in the present. This means that we have a much greater degree of control in determining our own future than most of us can presently imagine.

If If I saw in your reading that there would be significant challenges ahead for you if you did proceed with setting up your own business, I would not be telling you that it would necessarily fail. Instead I would be suggesting things to make the process easier for you, and therefore greatly increase your chances of your business being a reasonable success.

Now if by chance I saw that your business was going to potentially make you a wealthy person, I would instead be preparing you for that, as there are definite downsides to possessing great wealth when you do not feel that you deserve it. With some people great wealth can becomes such a terrible burden and reason for concern that they can end up much worse off or poorer than they were before!

This reading is now effectively over, but I would be pleased to give you another one specifically concerning setting up your own business AFTER I have given readings to other members who have not had a reading as recently as you have (understood?) Your request should begin a completely separate thread as at least from my perspective, this reading about unexplained anger affecting your relationships with other members of your family is over (unless you wish me to explain anything I wrote in your reading in more detail).

I want to thank you for the excellent feedback you have provided, as it is evident from your response that it has encouraged you to think more deeply about what has been happening in your life, and I believe that this is a very good sign that you are about to make significant progress in several life areas at once.

It was very nice to meet you,

Your's faithfully,

EOT

Posts: 46 · Posted: Sun Jul 08, 2007 6:30 am

Dear EOT,

Thank you very much for the time and energy spent on my readings regarding my anger.

You have truly been a guiding force..