I'm sorry for asking a reading as my first post, I did read the guidelines...


I just have this guestion that has given me headaches for years, I would appriciate if someone could see something about it.

I have a very difficult and abnormal relationship to a man. I quess we fell in love with each other just by staring at each other and we've been spinning in circles for years. We've never been able to build anything real between us, when we try it just collapses for some reason. I know that we've had to grow, and that's perhaps a reason it always collapses before we build anything real.
So could someone please see if there is a future between us. And what's really going on with this relationship, is it some kind of karmic thing?

I would be really grateful to get some help.

And sorry for posting this as a first post, english is not my native tongue and I prefer to discuss about astrology and stuff in general in boards in my own language

Let me ask you.:

If I say; this relationship will not give you anything but worries.....will you then avoid the man....will you "love him less"...will he be changed in your view ?

If I an the other hand say;I see great future for you.....will you then love him more? ....will you work harder to get him to know you? will the relationship be better?

If you answer yes on any of those questions....then don't bother....you don't love him....you just fancy him....it is the hormone that speak to you.

We all have free will....we ourself must both give and take in order for a relationship to work.
When the first "fire" have calmed and "everyday"  is a normal day...then mutual respect and care for each other are more worth then the burning feeling.

You are still young.....and if you aren't committed yet...then it's normal to have a lot of  "heart loves", and it's few that last for long.
But in order to find the one you can live the rest of your life with you need to investigate....you need to be open for relationship...I am not talking about sex... because it is how you two function together that is most important in the long run.

Good luck

Hi Nver
Im sorry but the future with him is not going to get any rosier.
There is a man waiting who will love you beyond your personality have faith he will suprise you when you meet him.
Cheers Pete

Thank you both

I do really think that my feelings for him are not going to change any way. I've thought about been so young too. But I've realized that my feelings just won't change. A lot has happenned and I still feel things for him. For example I realized that he might have a personal disorder that would definetly affect my entire life if we would be together and still after thinking about everything I still feel I want to be with him. I think that he has a place in my heart always even if we would never see each other again.

It's always good to know even though that that we don't have a future togetger wasn't really what I hoped to hear. If we don't have a future I need to give myself a permition to move on.