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Posts: 507 · Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 3:46 am

My questions about my life are to do with...
moving and becoming a single mum. I have been unhappy with the father of my children and have only stayed because of my kids, people don't understand this and continually judge me saying I'm here because of myself. I know this is not true. I have continued this unhappiness for 5 years and continually say I'm leaving. He seems to think It's a joke and I'm never going to leave so chooses not to change. I've had enough but yes I'm scared to become a single Mum.

Whether I should start a small business (market stall or shop)? I have little experience in business. My confidence is down due to mistakes I might make that may destroy my business. I also need finances to start what I would like to do. Can you see or foretell what the best path for me to go down would be?
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Can you see where I should be headed business wise. Yes I would like to have my own business but would like some confidence in the business side of things. I love crystals, angels, angel card readings,spirit counseling, I have my own way of massage (usually shoulders, neck and scalp), incense etc. I also need the money to back me up and to get started.
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And of course my children and how they would cope with a move away from where they have grown up so far and how they will cope without their dad living with us. Brett is 5 and Adam is 2 1/2.

Thank you for your help. I haven't received a reading in my recent request so am posting another request here.

Love and Light
Libby

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 5:29 am

To my friend Libby,

It was with great sadness and a certain degree of embarrassment on my part when I saw that you had not yet received your reading as promised.

Aren't some people so ready to make quick judgements when you as both a loving mother and loyal wife are doing the very best that you feel you can in the best interests of your dear children? Some of them say that it is better to beliving with your biological parents no matter what, although I believe that if there is so much unhappiness and your partner is unwilling to admit that he has a serious problem, then I do not see that you have a real choice but to try something else, as this current arrangement is obviously not in their best interests to be watching their mother's self confidence being progressively destroyed and fearing for both herself and her children's safety.

One real concern I do always have in offering you friendly advice as to what is the t best thing to do under the current circumstances is that by advising you to leave him, I could quite unintentionally be placing both your children and yourself in significant physical danger, as I really do not know your partner well enough to say exactly how he might react when he discovers that his family is leaving him. If there is any reason to feel that he would use physical force or threats on your lives as a way of keeping you with him, please notify the relevant authorities as soon as possible (get a restraining order if necessary) as I would not want to cause you any more suffering as your friend, than you have already been through.

That is I feel enough concerning my own personal opinions on this delicate matter for now, so now onwards to your actual reading.

Immediately your reading confirms that you have always like myself set particularly high standards for yourself in whatever you may have set out to do. Because many of these standards of your's have been unrealistically high, you have almost inevitably set yourself up for disappointment, and you therefore may unconsciously feel that you are guilty of making errors and therefore do not deserve any better treatment than you are receiving now (especially from the man in your life who told you how much he loved you).

What makes it especially difficult for you is that I sense that you still love him as much as the day you first met him, and that you are consequently hoping that he will suddenly come around to your way of thinking and actively seek ways to improve the situation. It goes against my my own fears about your safety (you and your children) and long term financial security to say that if you are waiting by chance for a miracle that he will mend his ways without some professional intervention, you could be waiting a very long time, and I do believe that unless the situation changes significantly for the better by itself (and proves me wrong) that you will eventually either need to leave him, or alternately to issue him his marching orders. Nothing would delight me more if I am later proved to be wrong about this on all counts, as I never enjoy suggesting that a relationship has passed it's effective shelf life and worse has become self destructive.

In order to gradually regain your own feelings of self esteem, and this could be extremely difficult when still living under the same roof as he is, begin with something very simple on a fairly regular basis. Some little inexpensive luxury which tells you how much you value and respect yourself enough to want to continue to do what you are already doing much better than you will presently admit to, each and every day. Some self administered TLC is just what the doctor ordered?

Is there any possibility of using your home internet connection to do a correspondence course online, with regard to learning to manage and run a small business, and perhaps also assisting you in increasing your self confidence so that you will be more willing in the future to take whatever carefully calculated financial risks are necessary to take the plunge, and to progressively become financially independent of your children's father?

Your significant intuitive abilities which you now use in your readings for others could still be used to supplement your income both while you are still at home and possibly later as well. It is very important not only for your own development as a reader but to keep exercising your intuition, so that it will be more easy to use it for guiding your business decisions at a later date. In other words, I feel that you will eventually expand the use of your intuition beyond simply giving psychic readings (this does not necessarily mean that you will find it necessary to stop doing these) , and I already know of several sites on the web where people are training others to better use their instincts or gut feelings when making financial and business decisions.

Some examples of these are:

.theharbinger.org/xvii/981117/robinson.html
.consciousmarketing.com/id52.html
lynnrobinson.com/business/news.html
monster.typepad.com/monsterblog/2006/03/is_there_room_f.html
linkageinc.com/company/news_events/link_learn_enewsletter/archive/2005/04_05_business_intuition_goman.aspx
ultramind.ws/intuition_in_business.htm

Once you have regained much of your former self confidence and are not only more financially independent, but are also certain that it is now safe to do so, then I feel that unless your partner is eventually willing to change his ways, the partnership is effectively over whatever else you might decide to do with reference to your living arrangements. Finally please remember with whatever you do decide to do about this you will always have our full support, as no psychic reading can or should be allowed to replace your divine right of free will to make the important decisions which life forces each one of us to make one way or the other, on an almost daily basis.

Love, Light and Healing to you and your family (including your children's father),

EOT

Posts: 507 · Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 3:22 am

Thanks EOT, I have made the time to go through my posts and respond. I'm going to be turned upside down shortly. I thank everyone at MB, you are my strength and my rock to help me get through all of this as I know when it's all over you'll still be here and I'll have a home to go to. Thankyou to all my angels including Earth Angels for supporting me through the hard times and the best times of my life. Amen. House inspection Monday. After that who knows?

Posts: 602 · Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2007 5:21 am

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House inspection Monday. After that who knows?

Madame, your chariot awaits you. And the world, your oyster. Enjoy it!!