May I have a reading please ?, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 72 · Posted: Sat Jun 16, 2007 6:28 pm

hey everybody,

it has been a while from my last request, Now, i am facing emotional problems and in need for ur balsamic touches, it's all concerning my emotional security and my relationship to my man, if any of u ( Mysticboard's angels ) would help me i will highly appreciate it,

Aida

Posts: 72 · Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 2:59 pm

would anybody do me a reading ????

bye

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 1:56 am

Hi Bintalmosul,

Actually you were the next person in the reading queue.

I was still deeply contemplating as to just what "balsamic touches really were" (I assume that it meant words of emotional healing and comfort are urgently needed).

Your reading appears to refer predominantly to your man, rather than yourself. The following is only intended as a list of the personal qualities generally found in the type of person for whom this reading would be appropriate and relevant. While you may find some of these qualities in your partner, it would be most unlikely if he had all of these at the same time. In other words take what seems useful to you in better understanding your man, and put the other parts of the reading aside to be brought out again later if and when their meanings might become clearer.

This type of man has a particularly forceful or even charismatic personality. He says exactly what he wishes to say, does what he wants to do and unfortunately for those closest to him he generally takes no prisoners. He has a definite gift with the spoken word (he might make a very successful salesman or even a politician) and can easily convince you that the opposite is true, even when the evidence that it is untrue is staring everyone in the face. The human tongue is a two edged sword in that it can both be used to encourage and inspire others to give of their very best, or alternately the spoken word can be misused or abused in order to push people into accepting something which they never had any need for or wanted themselves.

He is a very passionate man both with regard to any worthwhile cause near to his heart, as well as within his closest relationships, but he can be also at times rather rigid and inflexible in his approach to life in general, and is only really happy when he can get his own way. He is fairly unlikely to have more than one or two close friends during a lifetime. Most people are either uncomfortable in his presence or to be perfectly honest may be in fear and awe of his ability to make plans and to carry them out with as little consideration to other people's feelings as is humanly possible.

This is consequently a man largely either of two extremes. He is frequently surrounded by admiring people, but few if any of them are trusted friends of his. His significant skills as a spokesperson and in standing up for the rights of the disadvantaged are commendable when used in the proper manner, but at other times he may tend to want to take complete control of any situation and he often forgets that in order to achieve all he has set out to do in the most efficient manner he requires ongoing friendly co-operation and a feeling of everyone working towards a positive, common cause if the job is going to get done on time and other people are not going to have their feelings hurt in the process.

Not only does he often set unrealistically high standards of behaviour and performance for himself (he tends to perfectionism), but he also expects the same loyalty and high standards from everyone around him as well, including significantly you and any others in his own family.

You may come to believe from what I have written above that this man possesses no positive personal qualities at all and that he would therefore never make a good partner or family man.

And by believing this you would be ABSOLUTELY INCORRECT.

In reality, as long as this type of man can resist his negative tendencies and can keep them relatively under control, then he could make not only a loving and supportive partner and eventually an effective parent, but he would also be basically a very decent person to know as well.

Wishing you both much happier times ahead,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 72 · Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 6:42 pm

hi eye_of_tiger ,

Thank you for your detailed reading, i really appreciate your time,

correct, you get the exact meaning of "balsamic touches".

I agree with you about him, he has "the gift of the spoken word" and yes, he can convince me with whatever he want to, he is passionate, loving, caring and got a charismatic personality but at times he do not care for other's (me) feelings, and may seem to have no mercy with his closests,

I don't know if this is the right question in a psychic reading, but I need to know if I can feel secure with him, I mean in the future, can you see a promising relationship, I love him and he do love me but I don't know why I can't feel secure, may be it is because of my past experience as I involved in a painfull relationship ( ended without knowing how and why ) and I am at times feel so scared of loosing him as I lost my former partner,

I would like your help regarding this, my DOB is 29-12-1973, his DOB 13-4-1961,

Thanks in advance & my best wishes,

Aida

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 11:53 pm

Hello Aida,

At some later time I could possibly do a Life Path reading for the both of you, using the DOBs you have so kindly provided. But for the immediate future I would prefer to see what else has already come out of your existing reading.

I attempted to offer you a balanced viewpoint (some positive, some negative) of his personality type, and also tried to make the important point that in spite of his more negative tendencies there is a way that your relationship could be a long term and relatively happy one.

I wish to quote from your reading:

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In reality, as long as this type of man can resist his negative tendencies and can keep them relatively under control, then he could make not only a loving and supportive partner and eventually an effective parent, but he would also be basically a very decent person to know as well.

This effectively says that IF he can resist his negative tendencies and can keep them relatively under control, then he could make a loving and supportive partner. And if you are also equally willing to learn to gradually trust him more. I never suggested that this process would be easy, and remember that I was unaware at the time of your reading of the pain you had personally suffered as a result of the abrupt end of another earlier relationship. Unfortunately psychic readers cannot read your mind, but we do read your energy field or aura instead, and this we believe contains an imprint of your personality tendencies and soul memories, accumulated over many lifetimes.

I consequently feel that there is great potential here for you to feel increasingly secure within your relationship with this man, but it is going to be a matter of taking one day at a time, and learning to trust him on the basis of what he does, instead of simply taking all his words at face value.

I really do sense from your reading that there is a future for the two of you as a loving couple, but if I said that it was from now on going to be all love and light, I believe that I would not be taking my responsibilities as a psychic reader and your friend seriously enough.

Many blessings to you both,

EOT