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Posts: 37 · Posted: Wed May 30, 2007 4:04 am

Im 38, female from India. Im going thru a difficult phase in my love life and I feel I will be losing the man I love due to family traditions blocking our union. Would request readers to please give me a reading on my love life. Will I be able to get back the man I love ? Should I make efforts in that direction or should I let go ?? Are we going to be together in future?
Regards

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 5:23 am

Dear Pjyoti,

Unfortunately I am now feeling considerably less confident than I did when I previously gave you a reading on April 11th that this man will do something which he sees as being against his family traditions by first leaving his parents and then marrying you.

As I indicated in your earlier reading, I feel that the young man is both embarrassed that he placed you in such an uncomfortable situation by showing a romantic interest in you as his fellow worker, and that he is still terribly confused as to exactly what he wants.

You yourself commented to me that his interest in you has risen and fallen many times since then, and while I believe that he does not wish to offend the traditions of his parents, I do feel on the other hand that he does not want to either go through with the arranged marriage, nor does he want to hurt your deepest feelings (as a friend only).

Also unfortunately, I feel that he could easily go on like this for some considerable time yet, wondering whether he should give in to his own feelings about you, whether instead he should marry the other woman to make his parents happy while they are still both alive, or finally whether he should break away from his family completely and begin a relationship with an entirely different person (neither his arranged wife, nor yourself). I feel as another man that this is tearing him apart, but that sadly there is very little you could do yourself to now fix things between you. In fact, I believe that pressuring him about this will only likely make matters much worse.

Honestly on the basis of the impressions I am now getting, I am genuinely sorry to tell you that I feel that there is no longer any reasonable chance of you enjoying a future relationship with this man, while he is so heavily being influenced by his parents, and is still living under their roof.

If he is still living at home, why haven't they married him off by now (isn't he already around 30 yo)? Generally I see him as being a terribly confused person, as to him attempting to equally please EVERYBODY ALL of the time (impossible).

While I realise how painful it will be for you to let him go, I feel that by waiting indefinitely for him to get his thoughts and feelings in order, you could be at the same time missing any future opportunities for finding the love and happiness you so deserve in the arms of another man who is emotionally mature enough to offer them to you.

My feelings at the moment are that he will remain living in his parent's home as a single man for some time yet, and that only when one or both of his parents loses their influence over him will he be prepared to move out into the world to live his life as he sees fit, and to make his own decisions. The difference between your ages and the fact that you yourself are older are at issue here, and not his feelings of affection rather than deep love for you, which I sense are quite genuine.

I no longer feel that this is going to happen for sometime yet, with ANY woman he chooses for himself as being his partner. I also have no idea of what to tell you that is going to make it easy for you to work beside him each day, and to know at the same time that it is not very likely to happen between you romantically, especially while he continues to live under his parent's roof.

Sorry if I am sounding overly negative, but I need to remain completely honest about my feelings at the time, and conditions have progressed since I gave you your previous reading that strongly suggest to me that this relationship is unlikely to happen, at least within the next 5 years.

How long are you willing to put your own life on hold, to wait for something which is most unlikely from the impressions I am now receiving to ever happen?

"Should I let go ?"

Yes, but I would not be much of a friend if I did not tell you how sad I feel, or how much I hope that I am completely wrong, and that things will soon turn out OK for the both of you as a couple. I also would never wish to insult you by saying that this process of letting go will be an easy one.

IT WILL DEFINITELY NOT!!!

Posts: 37 · Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:03 am

Dear eye-of-tiger

Thank u for taking so much time and giving me a detailed reading. Im truly sad by this reading.
regards

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2007 7:24 am

Thank you so much for the feedback you have provided, as it definitely helps me to better understand why this man is so confused as to knowing what is the best thing to do.

I also hope that I am wrong about what I am feeling, but am genuinely concerned for your sake as my friend that I am not.

Posts: 37 · Posted: Mon Jun 25, 2007 9:52 am