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eye_of_tiger
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Age: 59 Zodiac: 
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Location: Adelaide, South Australia
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Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 1:14 am |
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Dear Pjyoti,
Unfortunately I could see this coming, although I hoped that he might be willing to go against family tradition this time, as it was he who first showed that he was interested in you. To make things even more uncomfortable for you if my memory serves me correctly you currently work in the same place. I am sincerely sorry that this has happened, as some family traditions in your country seem stronger than what a person actually feels.
As I said earlier, I feel that your lover was deeply confused and embarrassed to be forced into choosing between you and the girl whom his family had selected for him to marry, but in the end tradition and his desire to obey and respect his parents were more important to him than what his heart was telling him about his true feelings for you. You can only remain positive up to a certain point, and hope that love will prevail in the end.
Given adequate time you will get over this (difficult to believe now I know), but that does not help to reduce the pain you must be presently feeling. I share it with you. You will continue to have my full support in looking for love with someone else who is not so restricted by the traditions of his parents, and can offer you so much more than this man ever could.
Namaste,
EOT
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