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Posts: 8 · Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 3:07 pm

hi iam aparrna from bangalore ...i dont want to take advantqage of this forum and go for a free reafding but i desperately need your help coz io feel with each passing day iam falling into deep abyss...please help me... kindly let meknow if i can i meet some one who can guide me... and helpme ...in andaround bangalore... please respond..

Posts: 8 · Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 3:16 pm

my name is aparna my date opf birth is 27.8 1968... ad believe me i faced lot of upheavels all through my life....i am married ans a mother of two sons... and since past 6 years mry husband is facing severe financial crunch... we have lost almost every thing,... which also had put alot of strain in y our marriage..please help me

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 9:53 am

Hello Aparna,

I care very deeply for you and your entire family, and the first thing I wanted you to know is that none of what has happened over the last 6 years or so is really your fault. I feel that you have taken on a huge burden of guilt for factors over which you had very little control on your shoulders, and that any ray of light that I could offer you would be gratefully accepted as being good news.

When there are financial difficulties while it is important to set your priorities, there is always a strong temptation to go without your own basic needs for the sake of your family. I sense that you have given so much of yourself with the purpose of keeping your family and home together, that you have now left very little in reserve for yourself. Although as a parent myself of two adult children I can well understand your wish to make sacrifices in their best interests, your reading is effectively telling me that enough is enough and that if you continue to do this at the expense of your own health, what good are you going to be to any of your loved ones (or for that matter yourself)?

I am not saying this to make you feel even more guilty that you have somehow failed as a wife and mother to your two sons, but instead because I do not want to stand by and watch my friend endlessly punishing herself, especially for something you never did or never failed to do. I believe that you do not fully realise just how well you have coped when it would probably have already destroyed a lesser person than yourself, and it is I feel high time that you gave yourself the long overdue credit for what great things you have achieved in giving your family every advantage you could ever be expected to do, in spite of what has or has not happened.

As for your family's financial circumstances which you believe have now reached a point of crisis, I am being told that there is very soon likely to be a significant improvement in either your husband's or your own work situations. I feel on the basis of your reading that the worst is now firmly behind you, and that if either you and your partner have been planning to turn a hobby into a small business for some time, this is the best time it will ever be for you to put your plans into effect.

The advice being given is to put your heads together and think about developing a small family business around making something of great beauty with your hands that could become a growing source of income over the coming years.

Overall with your reading I am feeling increasingly confident that you will be able to work co-operatively with your husband to create a business that would not have been as easy to do if you were apart. That feeling of you both working together with a shared desire to help each other will eventually I feel only serve to make your marriage a stronger one than it might have otherwise been, if you had both chosen to go your separate ways.

Hoping this reading has helped you to see that there is already a small light at the end of the tunnel when it comes to both your marriage and financial status, and that most importantly it is continuing to grow ever larger on a daily basis.

It was very nice to meet you!!!!

Love, Light and Healing to you and your dear family from mine,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 8 · Posted: Sat May 26, 2007 8:24 pm

HI...
i thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking time and making an effort to reply.. i really appreciate this... honestly i never expected a reply...thanks for your kindness and warm regards
but i am afraid i am just a house wife with no creative hobby whatso eer ..and mother of two sons age 18 and the younger one 12 and a mydog whom i consider as my son too..only thing i can think rt now that i feel iam capable of is taking care of pet animals...(even thats ot possible rt away because my dog ceasar s not friendly) so how can i start a business or any thing else and iam sorry to say this but my husband and myself ar not in tune or rather not on the same wave lenghth any more...
is there any thing else you would like to know about me... so that it may help you to guide me..

ps...i am over whelmed by our response...i already feel lighter... thanks fforr showing me hope atthe end of tunnel

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Sun May 27, 2007 3:53 am

Aparna,

You are always very welcome.

Just a housewife, with no creative abilities or hobbies of your own to speak of?

I seriously doubt that the immensity of your being can be totally defined by you doing home duties.

With due respect being a housewife and mother are two of the most demanding and responsible jobs which you could ever take on (our future as a human species is in your capable hands), but your life choices cannot even begin to define the shining spiritual being you are inside.

To become a successful housewife and mother you cannot help but to look for new and more creative ways to do everyday jobs around your home, and you often feel the need to be in turn a teacher, psychologist, nurse, financial wizard etc in order to keep the household running relatively smoothly, with the limited time and energy you may have available.

If you did eventually have some spare time to yourself and wanted to use some skill you have already learnt as "just a housewife" in a new and highly creative way in order to make some extra money for your family, what would it be?

Your reading is NOT telling you need to wait to do this until you have the time to do it.

It is I believe instead saying that you cannot afford any longer financially as a family NOT to make the time for yourself to consider other ways to supplement your family income, then go ahead with your plans.

You are being strongly urged to continue to do whatever you practically can to improve your family finances, which includes you earning some extra income from a small family business which has grown from being only a hobby, because you were unwilling to wait until fortune smiled upon you and made some of your own good luck instead (understood?).

Namaste,

EOT