I would like to know how my life will be with my husband, and if we will soon get our children back from my mother in law?


Tina
9/10/71
Granger, ut
7:35am

angeleyz,

It would seem that your mother-n-law is fighting to hang on to your children.  She still is hanging on to some ideas that you are unable to take care of the children.  This was from when you were younger.  The main part is that she is afraid to feel the loneliness without them there.  Remember that she has had them for a while and has form a tight bond with them.  Even though she is their grandmother, she feels as if she is their mother.  As you are technically their mother and love them, you can see the love she has for them as well.  Right now she feels needed and that will go away if she gives them back to you.  A compromise will have to take place for all concern.  

You are feeling a void right now without them and feel regret for mistakes done in the past.  This sadness is creating alittle resentment and is causing more strife in your relationship with her.  Let those emotions go and try to resolve without emotions involved and you will get your answer on the how of it.  Both side need to think on what this is doing to the children, for they are the ones caught in the middle and have no choice.  

mysticangel