Hi Chrisdee, I have just read all the posts here and feel I may have a few ideas to help your situation. I have had similar situations with friends or who I thought were friends. As I am a very emotional person and very very sensitive person. I have the ability to pick up others negative vibrations and forget to rid myself of them. Sometimes causing mayhem knowing it's not me but it is me doing the actions.
From the time I was little I would let people know a loving encouragable way to do or say things. When I had conversations with my family and they were not getting the message, I would start to get really angry and fed up with their "it would be great if the world worked that way but it doesn't and there is nothing you can do about it". One day when this happened, I became so annoyed I turned around and very loudly said " Drop the subject forget I said anything" 3 times in a row. It worked. It seems to me your sister has been taken over by negativity from her third eye playing tricks on her. Drop the subject means the subject at hand cannot stay where it is coming from... her third eye and has to go down to her heart. If your sister breaks down you can say the words "You can trust in yourself to make the right decisions allow your heart to rule your head". This in turn will allow her heart to overcome the negative energy coming from the third eye.
First things first. Send loving vibrations to your sister. When we send vibrations of any kind they stay with that person or they send them back to you. It's likely that your sister is going to send your vibrations to her, back to you so make sure they are always positive. If she keeps them then this will be wonderful for her and you. If they are sent back to you, you have positive vibrations. When she sends negative vibrations to you ask heaven and your angels to transmute all the negative into a positive and send them back with your unconditional love for your sister. It is up to her what she receives.
It seems that your sister has made you a scape goat for everything that she seems to think has gone wrong in her life, she is too close to your sister so will never use her for anything like this. She does love you, you are already aware of that. Maybe she will need to learn it is not you it is her before any kind of healing is to take place.
If you love the picture of your dad with his new wife, put it up proudly and remember how you feel after all it is your house not hers. You didn't go over there and demand she put it on her own wall. Don't ever let anyone take love away from you or your right to feel at home in your own house. Keep smiling and know in your heart why you have your photos up.
With your sister ask your angels to talk to her angels
ANGELS ALWAYS EXIST AND ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND EVERYONE.
It is impossible for them to be any other way.
Your Guardian Angel is your personal Angel there for you and with you every minute of every day for your entire life.
Arch angels are there for everybody who needs them and can be with as many different people at exactly the same time on a personal level to each person or situation needing help or protection.
When you need your angels help or would like to talk to them, ask for help always say please. Give your worries to your angels and they help in any way they can. You have to be open to receiving their messages.
I hope this has been of some use to you. It would be great if you could let me know. thanks
God Heaven and our angels send love and light to you. Amen
