After i had distanced my self from my sister her eldest daughter who was a bit of a tear away was found dead just before Christmas 06 i would like to help her but i bring out the worst in her i'm afraid she is on the edge of a nervous break down. since her daughters death she snaps at every one that does not see things her way so much so that some of her friends at church are now not sitting with her . Ive heard she claims to still talk to her daughter i know spirit can say good bye but is it possible her daughter has not passed over .The name Ellen doesn't ring any bells my sister is called Shirley and my mother Alice although this is short like Alice .You mention a big improvement may be i finally get the truth about my partner, i don't think he classes them as affairs just sex, but i would move on

Yes, I think moving on (romantically) is definitely in the cards for you.

The death of your niece is the cause on which your sister is nursing some of that that jealousy I was seeing. She finds it outrageous that this could happen to her. "No justice in the world" and all that.

Ok, I'm doing more work on some specifics. Please let me know if my info is any good.

"Alice" is phonetically close to "Ellen," and it may be that I need to "listen" more patiently to my impressions. But I still feel there's an "Ellen" in the picture, and that she is on the other side with your mother. This would be a sister or friend of your mother's which is an aunt in relation to you-- or possibly she's your grandmother.

For the departed niece, I get a "D" name, like Denise or Desiree. Or maybe that's my mind playing word games with me: "Denise the niece."

I asked Alice to show me some things. Let's see if she did. The very first thing to come through was that there was something in the past between you and your sister and that you should "get over it." Not as if to say you were wrong or your sister is right, but that you have to let go of it. This goes way back to high school (I see lockers). It's something about some gossip or slander your sister spread about you, and if this is indeed your mother talking, she says "get over it." Do you know what this is in reference to?

I asked how your mother died. I got some confusing pictures. There was a car, and so naturally I thought, car crash? Then there was a can of sardines. This, to me, means crowding. It seems as if a crowded commute took a toll on her nerves. I think a cardiovascular problem took her life. Something about electrolyte imbalance. Did she experience fibrillation or tachycardia?

I asked when this occurred and got a 7. If this means 1997, then this is longer ago than I previously thought.

There was something about the funeral. I saw a picture of a little girl holding her mother's hand. It reminded me of pictures of Jackie Onassis and her daughter at JFK's funeral. I am trying not to analyze this image, hoping that it means something as is. But if I had to, I would guess that it's an image of your niece who died recently.

I think that my reading here is probably too "front-loaded" with info you've given, but we'll see.

Edit: Looking back in this thread, I see your sister was only a teenager when your mother died-- probably too young to have had a daughter by then. Your mother couldn't have been very old when she passed.

Before i comment on Ellen been on my mothers side id would like to ask around.My niece was called Zoe .After my mother died my Shirley went to live with my eldest sister Linda .I went to my elder sister when i thought i may have caught something after my son was born ,i thought my partner had been playing away .but she explained that it was thrush which is what it turned out to be. Shirley had over heard this and told people i had a venereal disease her boy friend shouted it out taunting me in the street i hit him ,he retaliated by kicking me between the legs my brother in law stepped in as i was on the floor .this i believe Brock them up but until you brought it up i had long forgotten this.As i moved house 18yrs ago and left all that behind even before this i realized she was just a kid misunderstood lost her mum and all that so didn't hold a grudge My mother died from breast cancer she did have radiotherapy on the left side of her chest where the breast had been removed. My mother died in 24 August 1980 aged 46yr she died 2yrs after been told

Ho my God Ive just realized after she Broke up with her boy friend (she had sided against me and with him)She started to come to my house but not to see me she was flirting with my partner although she was young ,one day i just had enough and told her i new what she was doing . she stopped coming round .so because she didn't split my relationship up shes held a grudge all these years, well she started this with the rumors. I'm at a loss i don't know what to say, I'm glad i know now why shes like she is but it is something she started not me
I would like to add i would not have been able to get to the bottom of this with out you, although i can do nothing about the way my sister feels towards me at least i know now why A BIG THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP