I was wondering if anyone would be able to do a reading for me, just to kind of help to give me a push in the right direction. I have a difficult decision coming up with my husband and I'm not sure which way to turn. We have multiple options, but I'm afraid of choosing the wrong one. We've both been burned so many times before and I'm terrified of ending up worse off than we already are, but a decision must be made. My indecision is causing me to freeze in place and I'm afraid there's no time left, even though there actually is.

I can sum up my impression in very few words: "Go for it."

Let's see if I've got a fix on your situation. It seems to me that your husband is the brash and daring type. It's heroic, but sometimes it's wearing on you because perhaps he can be impulsive or rash.

I get the sense that this is a business proposition that he wants to charge ahead on, and you are hesitant.

Discretion is the better part of valor, but right now, your hesitancy is leading to missed opportunities. In your life, you have not had occasion to be a risk-taker, and you're not sure how to go about it. Security is fine, but at this moment in your life, you need to trade your timidity for courage and conviction. The conviction is crucial: no matter the outcome, you must be confident that trying is the right thing to do. The word is commitment. Also, I get the sense that you are not very willing to joke about this matter, as if you are telling your husband it's no laughing matter, and he, in turn, is urging you to lighten up. I hate to side with anyone in a couple, but he's partly right: having a sense of humor about this could just save your sanity and your soul.

I get the sense that this has been going on awhile, and there have been missed chances and rather halfhearted, half-committed efforts, and although you did not learn from that in the past (and I get the feeling your husband has been willing to remind you of it), now, right now, is a chance to do something diffferent.

And I think you will, because what I'm seeing in the near future is deadlines, schedules, focus, creativity, and success. It is a 180-degree turnaround from your current hesitancy.

Please let me know how this strikes you.