You are very welcome Reichild, anytime...  That is what we are all here in this world, to love everyone and if we can't we have to learn to at least forgive them because they are still living in the dark.  All we that we can do is help those that we can and grow spiritually for ourselves and hope for the best outcome.

Mysticangel

Yes she has had it looked at and diagnosed i cant remember the term used for it anyway it means it has not yet gone to her blood stream which is good it means they have found it early (before it has spread too much to treat).

I am in New-Zealand believe it or not so i think i am about -11 hours behind you or something like that. I'm just going to pm you...

I just PM you as well..

Mysticangel

i have not read all the responses that were given to you, i only read the your first one, and the first response to you, from rhuto. i don't like to read to much because it alters the energy that comes from the the actual person who asked the question. so i don't know if you have already solved this, or if we moved on to another subject, like threads that have been going on for awhile do.

so here's my take on it. she may be a bit mental. but that not what this is about. she is very manipulative, she does things with no care or disregard for other's. she's almost like a sociopath. doesn't have any feelings about the things she's doing. thou she is not a true one. later in her life she may have remorse and try to turn herself around. a true sociopath can't do this.
i will say she is not a good person to be around and you need to say enough is enough. i almost don't want to tell you why she does the things she does in fear that your open heart will feel sorry for her, and want to help her again. there are many reasons ppl do things, some ppl are just bad to the bone. she does what she does out of fear, she's scared to death, and is in survival mode. she feels it's her against the world. she feels backed into a corner and she will do what ever it takes to stay a float.
until she realizes that no one can help her but herself, she will not be anything but a drain on u. if your friend that's telling you she's changed is fooled by her, then she's better than i thought. but maybe there is some underlying deception on your friends part. i might be off on that, only you can decide. if you think your friend is sincere in her thinking this person has changed, then you might want to help her (subtly) see the truth. i will answer your first question later, i have to let all this energy dissipate. there is so much stuff going on here it's all a little overwhelming. and I'm sure your feeling a bit the same.

Blackcat

Thanks Blackcat i realy appreciate your input