hi
i would like to tell my dad i miss him and i am so sorry that i wasn't there whe he pass over i should have been . does he have any messages for me and please help me to tell all my dear friend that i miss them dearly and i think of them often
thank you
bith date is june 16 1965
my name is debbie

Oh my goodness you have my name and my mother's and youngest son's birthday.. How bizarre is that?
I am not sure if this is right or not.. I am getting the name Carl.....and also the name of Tom..... a piece of plaid material with white and light brown through it mostly. I am seeing a jail cell with blue sheets and pillow case on the bed. If these things pertain to you, then your father forgave you a long time ago. You need only forgive yourself and move forward.
One can speak to the departed easily just by thinking of them. Sometimes they show up in our dreams and we have wonderful times with them there.  

A simple visualization/meditation:  See a box (like one you would fill for Christmas) and fill it with all your thoughts of love, peace, hugs, kisses, etc. and seal it with your love.  Wrap it in white (for spirit) paper and put a ribbon on it of your favorite colour, your loved ones favorite colour or a rainbow ribbon (rainbows are mystical, magical symbols of connection, bridges, communication, etc. complete with a pot of gold (prosperity) at the end) Then see your parcel grow wings and fly heavenward.  Your loved will receive all your love and none of the tears which allows for growth to you both.

Our loved ones always know what is in our hearts...even before we do sometimes!

Hi Debbie,
Surely, the fact that you have come to this site indicates that you have some ability. Your Dad has probably visited you already, look for the small things, so that you can voice your concerns to him. A smell of him, a reminder, a feeling of familarity. These subtle hints would indicate to me that he is near.
Trust in yourself.
Jen

saldaba6....can you help me? i am also in the same situation. i am wanting my mother to know that i am so sorry for not being there that day. i hope she forgives me. and also if you can speak to her i want her to know that i love her very uch and justice will be gotton for what was done to her. thank you so much