Well from a old man's view, and after reading the whole thread I might say something too

When a couple long for a child, their mind is focused on this.
The longer time it goes the more helpless the couple will feel, and the feeling of dissatisfied will grow....you can say no....but I believe it's true.

You say you have a child and that this child receive all the love it need.

From the parents view this might be the case, from the child and from people outside it might be different.

Even if the parent overwhelm the kid with love, the kid know that you are trying hard to get a sister/brother.
The mind of a kid is so that they might believe that you aren't satisfied with her/him and you are trying to get something better.
They pick up signals when you or you both are down and those negative impulses will they believe they are the source for.

In a marriage where the kids comes as natural as easter, there will not be such problems. For parents that have to fight a bit more for it have to be a lot more careful.
I am not saying you neglect your child....far from that...but it seems you are very eager for this to happen....and then you have the danger.

So in a way I agree with Blackcat,.... she is frank...she don't go around the porridge....but what she says might be true....all depend how good you are to include your child in your struggle and show her real love.

When someone ask for a reading, they always wish to hear what they have back in their head...have a confirmation that all will be good.
I think quarrents should be more pleased with "readings that gives room for thoughts".  
They are a lot more truthful and hopefully they make the recipient eager to change course or at least evaluate the situation.

So I will end my post with a wish that all ends good for you all

Well said,i happen to agree,and yes Blackcat is frank,and i like that.......

People do expect alot when they ask for a reading,like me,i wanted all the answers,but i now know it doesnt work like that.But i keep an open mind,take it all in and work off that.

Blackcat,you did open my eyes with your reading to me,with you being so to the point it did kick me up the bum and have a look at myself and id like to thankyou because sometimes people dont know untill they hear it from another.And now im trying to change and i love it,for if it wasnt for you,i think it would of taken me alot longer to be the person i want to be in life........

Lucina, I personally know that BC, never meant anything bad to u, she is very frank & staright forward & love her for that, she always calls a spade a spade & nothing else.

I cannot explain it better that how Rutho or Soul-flower has. Just think about it, & know that no one here on the site means any harm or ill towards u.

Lucina, I haven't been a member of this site but short of a few days, but even that is a fact, I have participated in a few discussions and a few readings myself with blackcat to know that she is just very outspoken is all.  She doesn't sugar coat it and that is because she believes in order to help a person, or fill a request, doing a reading you must be truthful or tactful I should say, as much as possible or it's defeating the purpose of giving one or recieving one.  Everyone's perception and how they analyze information is different from anyone, that is what makes us all unique in our own way.  Actually you have to look at it this way....blackcat was concern for your daughter because initally you did not mention what she meant to you, or how special she was.  The wise elder was correct in his posts to you.  Children are very smart, smarter than we give them credit for.  In fact, children's senses are quite more keen than adults and they pick up suttle things, hints from us that a lot of times we are unaware they are doing that.  As children, even though their senses are much more keen than ours, they still do not understand alot of what they do pick up and so therefore would tend to misunderstand certain situations.  Even when we tell them everyday that we love them and they are the most important person to us, they still have certain insecurities and fears of their own.  From the eyes of a child they will see mom and dad both are feverishly trying to have another baby, from those intense times that you are trying and the conversations you have, not to mention the constant trips to the doctor for checkups or what not does affect her personally.  She's only 3, so she will think as a 3 year old.  What's running through her mind is that she feels unwanted in spite of the fact you constantly tell her you love her, or how much time you spend with her.  The money aspect doesn't matter because she could care less about the money, what she does care is how mom and dad show they need her, she only cares about how close does she really feel with you and dad.  I have 3 kids of my own and they are 16, 12, and 6.  Even though I tell them I love them, they are just words and words are easy to say.  The hard part is how do we show them that love?  The assurance they gather for their feelings of stability is how does she take your affection to her, how does she process all the things you do with her, etc.  

You would want someone who does a reading for you to be completely honest and forthright with you because if not then it's all a matter of falseness information and I'd much rather know where I stand with that person than having to guess at it.  In blackcat's defense, please ponder on this note, for someone to give their time and experience freely within this forum to benefit those that she does reading for, do you think that this would be a person who does it just to attack others or it's someone who wants to help?  To be able to have this special gift, I have notice with everyone I come across and what little I know about them, everyone has had a very harsh past, a very hurtful past that brought their special gift to surface and make itself known to us.  

In response to what this forum is asking about, I believe if you try to relax and allow it to happen then it will happen for you.  What happens is is that when you try so hard and you become sadden by the failure attempts, your body tends to tense up so much that it's brought stress to your body.  When you are stressed about any situation, what happens is the body shuts down and doesn't allow anything to invade the body.  When you are stressed and tense, your cycle is affected as well, so how can the fertilization or permentation of the embryo take affect??  Remember back when you were pregnant with your daughter, and you went through the same process as before, the difference is is that you were much more relax at that time and so it allowed the embryo to implant itself to the womb.  Bring your body back into balance and allow the chi to flow evenly throughout your body.  Once the chi is flowing evenly through your body and it relaxes from being distressed over the whole process, then you might notice that you could have that miracle you are searching for.  

Mysticangel