| blondie73 wrote: |
| I have only been married to my husband for 2 months & am scared too death. We have had a rough 6yrs. He's very secretive & quiet by natue. I feel as though he hides things from me. Usually when I feel that way it ends up being right. I want to know if he's cheating on me or has recently done so. There is a girl that he was with a yr ago when we broke up. She keeps trying to stay connected to him. He did lie to me about not speaking with her. She text mails him a lot but I think that has stopped for now. Does he really even want to be with me? Sometimes he's so moody & distant I feel like I don't even know him. Is he unhappy w/ our relationship? If so what should I do? I love him more than anything & I'm afraid I will loose him again. Will our marriage last? Also, he is very flirty which scares me. Especially since that's how I met him. |
Ok for one this is only advice somewhat sight but on the other hand it's common sense..... Ok if your not happy in a relationship why stay? "change is inviteable, suffering is an option", from this question I get things will continue to be this way, and rather it sounds harsh now, just remember love has alot of ups N downs, and some love never makes it and some does. It's all up to you to really want to stay in this relationship, for some reason I get you are afraid of something yourself? And ya know ALWAYS go with your gut instinct because it never will fail you!!!!! And by this question what i get too it the old saying "once a cheater always a cheater". I don't want to read in to him because it's really dissapointing...
I'm not gonna feed ya a bunch of BS either, I'm only giving you my thoughts and insights about this relationship, if you want to choose to listen that's kool, however I believe you will go with your own option. Just know love is blind and we do stupid things to stay with the one we love.
~Lucky69