Hello everyone, I'm new here, although not new to "mystical" things. I am in front of a huge choice right now (have been for over a year and find it hard to decide) and would like some advice. Could anyone give me a reading?

The question: My husband is in his native country right now. I would like to join him there permanently or for a very long period of time with my two daughters. Is this a good idea for all of us? Is it a good idea for me? for our children? What is a good time to go there? We were planning october or the end of this year. If you need any names and places, I'll be happy to mail them offlist to an e-mailaddress of the reader's specification.

Thanks a million if anyone can help me with this. I know the choice is mine, but I would really like some help with it.

Love,
Blackbird

if anyone wants to reply, onsite is fine, off list is ok too, my email address is bcdewaard@yahoo.com

Love,
Toos

Hello,
Your afraid to leave what you know and afraid your children will miss out
on ties they have if you move.I see that your husbund is feeling kind of home sick too but He also worries about financal issues too.
I see if you move it will be awhile before things get settled and I see you
moving around the new year.

Thank you Susanne, for your quick reply. All sentences in your e-mail were right on the nose! Around New Year is at the moment our first eligible option, so I guess that was perfect.
Thanks again.
Love,
Toos

Blackbird, what should figure in your decision most importantly is the country you would be moving to. You must remember that you are also making decision for your two daughters whose lives could be significantly altered by your decision. It is a sad reality of our world today that many countries are just not fit culturally to raise young girls. In many countires, women are nothing more than a man's property. Please keep your daughters' well being in mind as you make your decision.