i would like a reading pretty please. my birthday is on 26th December 1985 I'm male. i want to know if my ex love will return to me  and what should be my next step if that doesn't happen cuz i'm pretty much lost now..
her birthday is on 17th january 1990

My good man, let me ask you something: if someone said she would or would not return, what would be your course of action?

1) Will you sit and wait or contact her immediately?
2) Or, will just give up on life and brood at home?

In my humble opinion and as part of this reading to you, your next step is similar to the Two of Swords from the Rider Waite tarot deck.
We see here a woman sitting on a bench made of stone, with the sea behind her and a crescent in the sky. This woman is blindfolded and has got two swords crossing her chest pointing upwards.
What does this mean?  Or, how could this be related to your situation?

This person in the Two of Swords is refusing to see the truth and in that is also refusing to speak what’s on her mind. She has in a state of stalemate whereby she is holding herself back from any form of progress if only she would bring her swords down and remove her blindfold.  Sometimes, deep inside we know the truth and we refuse to see it or even speak about it. Until and unless we have done so, we will never move forward. There are no guarantees as to what the repercussions may be after removing the blindfold or speaking your mind up. It may be good or it may generate an undesirable outcome. But.. and this is where my opening statement comes into force: how long would be you be willing to sit and remain in this state of flux expecting for things to happen on their own accord.

Will your ex come back to you?  I do not know. I don’t get the feeling that she will come back to you if you sit there letting your mindset to be the slave of your own fears. That being the case, you will keep on asking this question until one day you hear that she is already with someone else.

I am stressing here more on the question you asked as to what you should do in the meantime. I am not going to predict whether she is coming back to you or not.  For as long as you sit there, refusing the see the truth and express speak your own piece, then you will never know what to do or what is out there for you whether with your ex or with someone else.
I feel you know what you should do, but as we all human beings sometimes hide behind our own truth for fear of the obvious, perhaps it is time for you to remove the blindfold and free yourself from the obstacles of the two swords to make a go of your life.

I wish you all the best.

thanks for your reply. my question was maybe unrealistic as I already tried to get her back, tried everything and I know she is with someone else, for months. But i still didn't lost faith in hwe love, or maybe i've lost my mind then.. I know i can only let time pass and hope that she is really happy as she says it is. then my mind would be at ease.

Maybe i0m refusing to see the truth because truth hurts me. Maybe i've asked the question for what i already know the answer. But how can we be sure in anything..
I hope i will get over that confusion and do what is right. It's probably the hardest stage of my life as i never felt anything like it. That could be the reason why i'm so lost, it was my first REAL love.  and i've lost it .

Thanks again, that was quick reply..

I wish you a steady and quick recovery my good man.
Grieve your loss and I am sure you will bounce back into life.
You sound quite realistic of your situation and I wish you all the very best.

Perhaps a more practical approach:  Why would you want her back?  What has changed?  

Einstein's theory of insanity:  Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.  

Each and every encounter we have in life teaches us something.  We need to recognize the lessons and move on.  For some it will be harder than others.  But the sooner we heal from our loss and turn back into life, the sooner we are ready for the next adventure.  I have found that life is merely a series of adventures strung together to form an individual's life.