Hello Angel,
I appear to be getting a reputation for finding missing items of both sentimental and financial value for people, which I feel that I do not deserve. While it is true that I have had some varying success in locating these objects in the past, I mainly receive my intuitive information in the form of loud thoughts in my head, rather than as visual images in my mind's eye as advanced psychics (which I am not) often do in this highly specialized field of psychic detective work.
So when I am looking at what you have written I am not actually seeing your ring and its present surroundings as such, but rather I experience it as a a series of voices making comments or having a two way conversation about a ring which seems to have been passed forwards and backward so many times between your boyfriend (your fiance in waiting) and yourself that the universe may have interpreted this as a sign that you are still undecided as to whether your engagement and the blessed union which you would expect would inevitably follow it are such a good idea after all, and could have handed it on to someone who will treat it with the respect that it deserves.
Note that I do not regard myself as a trained or accomplished medium by any means, and this is not to be viewed as a mediumship reading, with these not being allowed on this site. It is more like I was holding the ring in my hand, and picking up on a series of thoughts from its former owner. This ability if I actually did have the ring physically with me would be called PSYCHOMETRY.The big difference is that in this case I am not physically holding your ring, but only psychically at a distance.
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“Psychometry is picking up or reading the energy of an object (such as keys or jewelry) by holding it in your hand. You can sense the vibrations emanating from it. The energy patterns of the object are downloaded into the reader’s subtle bodies. The memories contained in the object are accessed by the subconscious mind and raised to conscious awareness.
“The reader receives information about the history of the object. If someone had it in their possession for a long period of time, you can receive information about that person as well.............." |
http://thegobetween.wordpress.com/2011/07/26/psychic-abilities-using-psychometry/
You may already be familiar with the concept that objects such as rings which are worn day after day in direct contact with a person's body, often absorb some of the energies of that individual like a type of psychic sponge. In a strange sort of way this ring now contains an energy imprint of its previous owner as well as her overall emotional makeup or general temperament. In other words it can take on part of her personality.This ring still has some of her attitude stamped on it?
This energy imprint can often out survive by many years its owner, and I am wondering whether this previous owner was a member of either your or your boyfriend's families who has since passed into Spirit who is feeling somewhat offended by the way that what she may still see as being her ring has been treated in what could be viewed as a careless and disrespectful manner to her memory and the value which she gave to that ring when she was still alive on Earth.
Rather than seeing images of an historical past where a woman is wearing the same ring with it being 100 or more years before the present moment, I am picking up on the ring's previews owner's thoughts about how the ring has been stored on kitchen cupboards and in and around other inappropriate places according to her somewhat conservative and traditional way of looking at such things.
Now I am not telling you these things to make you feel even more guilty than you both undoubtedly already do for having not put the ring in a safe place and having left it there, and your boyfriend not having waited until he proposed marriage to you before giving it to the lady who has won his heart.
The voice which is an older woman's is telling me that you can only have the ring back if you use it for the purpose that it was originally designed to be used - as a visual sign to the world at large of your love and commitment for one another, and your boyfriend's intention to "make an honest woman of you" as soon as he possibly can.
Even the use of the term to make an honest woman of you gives me a feeling of this woman having lived many years ago in a time where it was of utmost importance to young lovers and their parents that such matters were conducted according to established religious tradition. In her rigid, traditional belief system there is a proper and right way to treat "her" treasured ring, and an improper and wrong way which is what she judges you as having done.
She is basically getting extremely impatient and angry with both of you and telling you to for God's sake make up your mind once and for all. Either you are going to get engaged to each other as soon as possible, or you are having second thoughts or cold feet about it and passing the ring back and forth like a see saw (she refers to a see saw as a teeter totter which is definitely an outdated term which is not used much at all these day) i a visible sign that you are really not ready or serious enough about doing this as was intended.
I cannot predict if the ring will eventually be returned to you, but I can predict with a reasonable degree of confidence that unless you both are more willing to make your commitment and take the plunge and seal your betrothal in the time honored traditional fashion (get engaged, then married), the ring will be handed on to another couple who will do what the former owner feels is the only proper thing to do in this situation. If you are going to continue to put the date off indefinitely and still want to wear such a ring on your finger, it is probably not going to be this one.
So there is still some hope that you will suddenly one day discover the missing ring in a place you have already looked for it before and could not find it because it was not there then, but the clock is ticking. Are you serious about doing this or are you going to take this huge leap of faith and have a life together, or what?
This prim and proper elderly lady (who may herself have waited for years in vain to marry, but never did - an old spinster) is not going to put up with this sorry state of affairs much longer, so if your engagement is going to be too much further in the future, then please find another ring to replace the one you have lost, which has now gone to people who will treat it in the manner which she feels that it deserves to be treated (with the respect which is due to it).
She really does go on about this more than I feel is necessary in order to get her message across to you. She is really getting hot under the collar about the ring, with her knickers in a twist She is not going to put up with any more nonsense from anyone so young: I can tell you.
This marks the end of the messages which are coming through me about the ring on your behalf. Sorry that I cannot be more definite about whether the ring will eventually be returned to you, one way or the other.
Basically it seems from her point of view, you and your boyfriend/fiance will largely decide this for yourselves according to your actions (or lack of actions) during the next six months covered by this remote past psychometry reading in finally getting engaged to one another. This event is long overdue in her books, or from her narrow personal perspective.
Don't let her push you around. If you are not yet ready or able to get engaged, buy another ring is my advice.
Be good to each other, and to yourselves,
EoT
