You are on the right path, Rose, but at the same time making too much of an effort to move on by taking part in a dozen activities can have repercussions of its own. Don't try too hard. If you feel like being alone and shed a few tears, do that. If you like partying, do that too. Don't run away from the pain; easier said than done, I know.
If this man has taught you what being in a relationship is, then cherish that lesson and apply on to the next one adding your own touch to it. If you shall re-unite, then you shall. But PLEASE do not cling on to that hope and hence hinder the pace of your progress. We have all been there and, therefore, I allow myself to give you this advice, even if some of it is hard to accept.
Do not keep asking for multiple readings in case one reader might say that you will reunite (have been there too). You have been given a good reading in the tarot forum just recently. Get out there and enjoy the attention that you will attract from other men. Oh, yes, no one will be a match for him, but you will get over it if you allow yourself - and others - to come closer to you as friends, as acquaintances. You may not wish being around couples; then don't mingle with them for a while, but do not cut them out of your life for good - friends will always be there for you.
I know there is the temptation of hearing that one reading which might say, 'you will be back together in X number of months'..... please, please, get that out of your mind; leave that for the future, if it is going to happen, but in the meantime DO NOT STOP LIVING!
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so i should just keep moving on with the flow of things...?
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No one can tell you whether you should or should not. But if you insist to cling on, sit and wait...... believe me, you will miss out on life and living, whatever that may mean for you.
All the best to you.